Adventures of a Redneck Mommy

happy homemaker monday

2011-10-17T12:51:00.000-05:00

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The weather in my neck of the woods:

up to mid 70's today but getting cooler at the end of the week

Things that make me happy:
Watching my kids play together laughing and making memories.

Book I'm reading:
My pregnacy week by week and Babycenters guide to pregancy

What's on my TV today:

Nothing i havent even turned it on yet.

On the menu for dinner:

Sloppy Joes

On my To Do List:

oh my this could be a whole nother blog post..

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
Bbq spare ribs using mccormics bbq pull pork slow cooker mix as my meriade..they were great...

In the craft basket:

pair of sock for my man,baby blankets for my sister and cousin and a friend of my mans

Looking forward to this week:

my little girls pageant on saturday

Tips and Tricks:

if you have little girls who where dress shoes and they scuff them up put a pair of socks over the toes and remove them when you get where you are goin keeps the shoes clean.

My favorite blog post this week:

none

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):

none i havet had the time to read many blogs lately..

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

all the kids dress for church looking at daddy peekin around the corner..

Lesson learned the past few days:

you play you pay.. We are expecting our first baby together but will make baby number six in the family.

On my mind:

How my kids will be 7,6,5,4,&2 when the baby is born..

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

Psalm 127:3-5 NIV
3 Children are a heritage from the LORD,

offspring a reward from him.

4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior

are children born in one’s youth.

5 Blessed is the man

whose quiver is full of them

Making Your Home sing Monday

2011-10-17T12:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome to the Making Your Home Sing Monday meme! Every day you are doing something to make your house into a home for yourself and your family (if you have one). My point with each Monday post is, what are you doing or going to do today to make your home sing?

It can be an attitude or an action. Motivation, our attitude, baking, encouraging our husband or children (if we have either one), organization, cleaning, saving money....the opportunities are endless.Click HERE for more Monday's...

SO it has been a while since i posted.let me catch you up.. My boyfriend of almost 10 months moved in with me and we have been raising my three kids ages 5,3,and1 and his two kids ages 7 &5 together we learned last monday that we are expecting our first baby together. My house is in total caios i dont know if i'll ever be able to keep up with all the messes being made and i feel completely overwhelemed.i need a professional organizer to donate thier services in a BAD WAY!!! my house is not singing and i think if anyone see the mess the chior directer would BAN US!!! My boyfriend is amazingly wonderful i never knew you could love someone so much and they love you back It is such a welcome change to have a parter who supports you and you are on the same parenting page with rather than what i was married to before..

A new leaf

2011-10-10T00:28:00.001-05:00

Well my boyfriend and I have been together for nine months now and things are goin really well.. all the kids are getting along better and we are on the same page as far as disipline and finances..I also want to announce that coming this june we will be havin our first baby together.. He had two boys ages seven and five and I have a girl who is five and ( six moths older than his five yr old)a boy three and a girl 20 months so when baby A is born they will be 7,6 5 4 2 WOW i m crazy but i love it..

friday fill ins

2011-08-05T01:11:00.000-05:00

Friday Fill-Ins!

And...here we go!

1. How can I _live with out my man____.

2. dont smoke weed it rots ur brain____.

3. My hair _is blond____.

4. _why would i go to my class reunion i didnt like those ppl 10 yrs ago why do i care what they are doing now???_.

5. My favorite summer fruits _watermelon____.

6oh snap_____...what was that?

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to snugglin with my man_, tomorrow my plans include _hanging with my man____ and Sunday, I want to enjoy all five of my kids_____

losing it..

2011-06-05T21:26:00.002-05:00

do you ever feel as if you are waging a battle and you are losing as if everything you want is slipping threw your fingers like sand. and you wonder how you can pick up the pieces to get threw it or even IF you will survive it? when the shear thought of a event sends waves of panic threw your body . YUP i m there. I dont know how or what to say to make it better either. i feel like im in a tail spin and im losing it. and all i can do is watch it crash and burn. have you ever wanted to hold on to something so bad that you feel like you are spending all the time you have thinking about the whats to come and you cant even enjoy the moment. knowing your whole world just may very well come crashing down around you and you are goin to be alone..

my bf's stupid ex..

2011-05-31T23:20:00.000-05:00

my boyfriends stupid assed ex pulled some shit today.. she went and picked up his boys from school with out his permission and basically kidnapped them but since the divorce papers dont specify who has what week the cops wont make her give them back so then she goes and files a restraining order against him and now he cant see, talk to or go near his boys who are his whole world. Her alimony is fixing to stop and she is just money hungry she thinks that if she can get full custody he will have to pay her child support.she is a lazy fat bitch who dont want to work.This has broken his heart .. He loves those boys SO much and is the kinda of daddy women fantize of having for thier kids. He has stepped up and took on the role of daddy to my three kids and he makes no difference between his or mine he treat them all the same. HE is a very loving ,kind, caring honest man who would never hurt anyone.I just wanna smack her.. IT kills me to see him in so much pain and there is nothing i can do to stop it . sorry for the lanuguage but i love those boys like they are my own and It kills me to know they are with her and they hate it there..they cry when we take them for thier visits and it is breaking my heart.. any advice ???

making your home sing monday

2011-05-09T01:09:00.000-05:00

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So as most of you know my EX husband and I had been seperated for a while before our divorce was final. During that time I became close with an aquaintence of my ex's. This person is now my offical boyfriend and so much differnt than my ex it is like night and day. This MAN is amazing ... He helps me with anything I need help with .. Does things with out being asked to help me , tells me he loves and appriecates me , acuses me of spoiling him. He stands up and defends me he has my back all the time. and i have fallen head over heals in love with this man. I am over the moon happy. It is wonderful to have a partner who treats you as a equal not as a less person and to have some support not to be belittled. So i make sure and tell him everyday how much i appriecate him and all he does for me. Sometimes we have to make sure we are happy so we can make our homes happy . my heart and home are singing. hope yall have a great week..

happy homemaker monday

2011-05-09T01:04:00.001-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:
warm and sunny ,

Things that make me happy:

spending time with my wonderfully amazing boyfriend and our five kids

Book I'm reading:
The Missing by Beverly Lewis

What's on my TV today:
Sister Wives
On the menu for dinner:

Cheeseburger cassarole

On my To Do List:
Some major house cleaning and organizing

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
nothing yet

In the craft basket:
Socks for my man and a knitted shirt for my baby ellie

Looking forward to this week:

spending time with my family

Tips and Tricks:
when trying to get my six, five, four and three year olds to pick up their room i make it a race who can pick the the most the fastest.. that really works.. and they clean and dont know it..HEHE

My favorite blog post this week:

THis one at In courage

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):

THis one here called happily home

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

our five WONDERFUL kids.from l to r.. gusy , logan , ellie,miah and dylan

Lesson learned the past few days:

sometimes the thing you fear the most can be the biggest blessing in the long run.

On my mind:
my ex husbands girlfriend spanked my little boy and that PISSES me off.. i dont feel it is her place to discipline my children it is their fathers and now i really want to beat the crap out of her.. how do other blended families handle this ?? i need advice..

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

Thall shall not kill..lol.. see above..

making your home sing monday

2011-04-11T07:10:00.001-05:00

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Well my divorce was final last wednesday and the kids went for their first offical weekend visit to their sperm donors. I missed them so much but I guess they enjoyed him actually paying them some attention and taking them to do things so he can impress his new girlfriend. SO i have done alot of internal and mental cleaning this week since my new town house is organized and everything has a place and doesnt take a whole lot to keep clean. I have time for other things like my crochet and knitting.SO my home and heart is singing.Hope you all have a good week.

friday fill ins

2011-03-25T16:03:00.000-05:00

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Friday Fill-Ins
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And...here we go!

1. Why does it _always rain on my kid free weekend____.

2. _a good nighs sleep ____ is equal _to a good roll in the hay____.

3. My favorite breakfast includes _biscuts and gravy____.

4. _Looking for a mircle____ was the last book I read _in a while____.

5. I am SO glad _i have my wonderful man in my life____.

6. _sex____ would make me feel better right now.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to goin hunting with my boyfriend_____, tomorrow my plans include __sleeping in and having alot of sex___ and Sunday, I want to move away before my kids come home..lol____!

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Friday Photo Flashbacks

2011-03-25T11:10:00.000-05:00

this pic isnt that old but it is my favorite of my three kids and my two new step sons..i love these kids

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my new life..

2011-03-23T12:46:00.000-05:00

So now that I am embarking on my new life as a unmarried mom to my three wonderful kids and my super amazing boyfriends(hopefully my husband someday)'s two boys I relieze how life can be and what I was missing. THEY (who ever they are)say that when you meet THE ONE.. you will know.. i was always like YA right.. but THEY are right.. MY boyfriend is SO amazing. He helps me with SO much. I will never be able to show him much I appricate all he does and how much I love him. He treats me with so much love and respect. He treats my kids like they are his own. It is hard to find a man who will take care of their own kids much less one who will take on someone elses three small children as well.. HE makes me SO happy. We both like to do so many of the same things.We have similar dreams and goals. He makes me wanna be a better person . I am so dam lucky to have found him. HE is honestly the best thing that ever happened to me since i had my babies. I never knew it was possible to feel this way for anyone much less know they feel the same way back. I can feel his love for me when i look in his eyes , hold his hand it is like the warm sun on your arm on a cool day. When he kisses me it is like in the movies where time stops and fireworks are goin off all over. I feel so safe when I am in his arms. HE does NOT cuss , scream yell or berate me like my x did. He is a gentleman. It is so great to finaly be with a MAN, not a little boy. He is happy being a family man and can handle the responsibilites that come with that , and he does them with a smile. HE is SO amazing .I just cant really explain how he makes me feel. My kids love him. It is all the little things he does that takes my breath away. Like one night the baby was crying i was trying to fix her bottle and my older two were ready for bed n wanted a story read i told them they would have to wait a few minutes and before i knew it he was upstairs reading my kids a story and tucking them in while i took care of the baby. i didnt ask him to do it he just did it and when he was done he didnt complain about doing it or cuss me for making them wait. He helps me put away groceries, one night i was late getting home and he cooked supper for us, he helps around the house and makes everyday a good day. He gets down with the kids and plays with them ,reads to them all the things ive always dreamed the daddy to my kids would do but never happened with my ex. WHen ever i need anything he is there for me.. He supports me in my dreams and dont tell me they are stupid. I can truly be myself with him.so now that i have went on and on about him here is a pic of MR. WONDERFUL and myself.. I love this man SO much..

what i ment to say wednesday//

2011-03-23T10:27:00.000-05:00

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So back in novemember my soon to be exhusband comes home and tells me that he wants me and my kids to get out of his house and that GOD told him to return to his first wife due to the fact that when SHE divorced him it was a reason other than adultry.so each time him and i are together we are sinning and the only way for him to go to heaven is to leave our family and go back to her.. I said ..lets pray about it and seek the council of our pastors.. What i ment to say is .. WHAT THE HELL are you fucking crazy .. you dam ass hole.. im knocked up with our fourth baby and all you want to do is chase a piece of worn out pussy you fucked eight yrs ago..that thru you to the curb like a piece of trash.. cause you dont have the balls to handle being a family man.. your mid life crisis is happening at 29 . so you can go get fucked..

so here is a pic of me..

and this is what he gave up his kids and family for.. she is SO dam UGLY!!

opps i ment to say HORSE FACED..

but now that i have that out of my system I can say I NOW realize it was a pure blessing that he went to her They deserve each other I hope they both rot in hell cause i have a WONDERFUL man in my life who treats me with love and respect and helps me when i need it and is ALWAYS there for me when i need someone. and i cant wait for my divorce to be final so him and i can move on with our lives..

Wordful and Wordless Wednesday

2011-03-23T09:59:00.000-05:00

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As most of you know I am embarking on a NEW life, I am now divorced and raising my kids with the help of my AMAZING boyfriend . Ive gained a real partner and two sons and couldnt be happier.. Here is some pics of our brood.

and of course my and my man ( i love his amazing blue eyes)

black and white wednesday,

2011-03-23T09:43:00.000-05:00

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I have a new man in my life and he has two sons so together we have Five kids age six and under
here are some recent pics i took of our brood.

and here is a pic of my special man and his two boys

and here is US.. he makes me SO happy .. and you cant see them here but he has the most amazing blue eyes..

works for me wednesday

2011-03-23T09:22:00.000-05:00

Works for me Wednesday

So I am settling in to my new townhouse, My wonderful three year old son decided to draw mommy a picture in Perment marker on my white walls .. SO i searched high and low but finally got it off.so what takes perment marker off.. FINGERNAIL POLISH REMOVER..who knew.. so that is what works for me.. happy hump day..

Tackle It Tuesday

2011-03-22T09:17:00.000-05:00

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This week Im tackling getting everything settled and organized in my new place. Im recently divorced and moved my children and my self in to a townhouse and finally have a few days to get things in order. SO that is what im tackling.

post it note tuesday ..

2011-03-22T08:31:00.000-05:00

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making your homesing monday

2011-03-21T10:51:00.000-05:00

Making Your Home Sing:

Welcome to the Making Your Home Sing Monday meme! Every day you are doing something to make your house into a home for yourself and your family (if you have one).

It can be an attitude or an action. Motivation, our attitude, baking, encouraging our husband or children (if we have either one), organization, cleaning, saving money....the opportunities are endless.

Well SO much has happened since i posted last.. MY soon to be EX husband kicked me and the kids out because GOD told him to remarry is first wife or he was going to hell.. I have adjusted to my new life ..met a wonderful MAN.. im done with boys.. my ex husband was a boy.. MY new home is a townhouse where everything works and there is no holes in the floors and things get fixed unlike when i was living in that hell hole rat trap my ex owns.. My kids are SO much happier and my new man treats me and my kids with love and respect. No more being verbally and emotionally abused.. Only being showed what it is really like to be loved back and to get and recieve..I also gained two step sons who are six and four, so we have five kids six and under.. they are six, four , four, three and one.. MY new home is organized and runs smoothly and so now it is singing.. There have been some major adjustments and we have made them. I am SO happy , and feel so centered and enjoying whereI am in my life .Things can only get better.. HOpe everything is well with Y'all.

happy homemaker monday

2011-03-21T10:31:00.000-05:00

Happy Homemaker Monday - #11 - 2011

The weather in my neck of the woods:

Today: Mostly sunny, with a high near 83. South southwest wind between 10 and 15 mph.

Tonight: Partly cloudy, with a low around 59. South wind between 5 and 10 mph.

Things that make me happy:

my new life with my kids and wonderful boyfriend

Book I'm reading:
nothing right now goin to the liabrary later today.

What's on my TV today:
nothing

On the menu for dinner:
stuffed bell peppers

On my To Do List:
clean house and put away laundry

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
cabbage cassorole

In the craft basket:
a knitted shirt for my baby ellie

Looking forward to this week:
Getting my new place in order..

Tips and Tricks:

fingrernail polish remover will take perment marker off a white wall..who knew..

My favorite blog post this week:
Didn't get any reading done last week,
Im just getting back to bloggin after a long time off due to life drama

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):
read above

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

Lesson learned the past few days:
sometimes the thing you fear the most can be the biggest blessing in the long run.

On my mind:
my family and that my divorce will be finalized SOON

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

none this week

friday fill ins

2011-02-24T18:53:00.001-06:00

Thursday, February 24, 2011
Friday Fill-Ins 2011-8

And...here we go!

1. Ooooh, I cant wait for a kid free weekend with my man.

2. If I cant see him , I can't stand it!

3. How the heck did I end up with so many kids.

4. silver dollar city is one of my favorite places to visit.

5. I'm not a bitch, I'm not!

6. Sex, it has to be good.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to going to bed early, tomorrow my plans include relaxing and Sunday, I want to sleep in..!
Posted by Janet at 7:20 PM

another update

2011-02-07T20:37:00.000-06:00

well my ex and i made a agreement about custody of the kids and now just wating on lawyers to get off their butts and do their jobs.. also i met someone new..well he aint really new he has been an aquantiance for a while but only a friend..I finally got my own apartment and hopefully get to move in this week.also my job is ok.Ellie and Gussy are sick.. Ellie has ear infections again and gussy has pnumonia and miss miah is as sassy as ever. Im really happy for the first time in a long time. it feels good to be "ME" again.. hope everyone is doin well.

one BIG update

2011-01-19T21:12:00.000-06:00

So it is time for a BIG Update.. so a lot has happened since i posted last.. My soon to be EX husband threw a pregnant me and our three small children out on our asses to remarry is first wife who left him. I lost that baby and on saturday my baby will be one.. i cant believe she is that old. I am living with HIS mother as i have no where else to stay. I did finally get a job today and start on Monday. So I hope to be able to blog more often now. here is a new pic of the kiddies..

hope to hear from all my bloggy friends soon

cooking Thursday.

2010-11-11T10:26:00.000-06:00

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This is a recipe called Chimmeycherry, my dad used to make this and we would eat it with tortilla chips or put it on our tacos.

Chimichurri
½ c up of olive oil
¼ red wine vinegar
½ chopped onion
Two tablespoon of garlic chopped
¼ cup of parsley (chopped)
Teaspoon of oregano
½ teaspoon of salt and pepperTo make it hot.¼ teaspoon of cyan pepper

just mix everything together and enjoy.

I hope y'all like it ..
There are some good pics of what it looks like HERE and their version of the recipe..

Five Question Friday!!

2010-10-08T07:04:00.000-05:00

Questions for Friday, October 8th:

1. What do you listen to while driving?
      my kids screaming in the back
2. What is your least favorite thing about Fall?
      frost that kills my flowers
3. What does your dream house look like, inside and out?
      it is a log cabin with a big play room for the kids and a sound proof yarn studio for me.
4. Would you ever own a minivan?
     i always said HELL NO I AINT DRIVIN NO GROCERY GETTER.. guess what i bought last week.. YUP .. a Grocery Getter..
5. Do you wash new clothes before wearing them?
depends, most the time yes but i buy something cause a kid just puked i just put it on them.

Friday Fill In's

2010-10-08T06:51:00.000-05:00

#194

So...here we go!

1. My favorite month is _october____ because _it's my birthday____.

2. _love the feel____ a fresh breeze.

3. I love to sniff _warm cinnamon rolls in the morning____.

4. _Grits____ is what I like to have as a treat for breakfast.

5. The hobby I enjoy most is knitting and crocheting____

6. __lions and tigers and bears___ oh my!

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _going to homecoming at home____, tomorrow my plans include _who knows____ and Sunday, I want to sleep in.

Happy Homemaker Monday

2010-09-19T22:30:00.000-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:

fallish weather..

Things that make me happy:

knowing that my family is safe

Book I'm reading:

none

What I'm enjoying on TV:

nothing

On the menu for dinner:

chicken sandwichs

On my To Do List:

clean the house, wash laundry

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:

nothing been to busy

In the craft basket:

2 pair for miss Mecca

Looking forward to this week:

getting a new truck

Tips and Tricks:

none been to busy

My favorite blog post this week:

aint been reading many

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers)

none

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

Lesson learned the past few days:

sometimes disasters are blessings in disguise

On my mind:

missing my granny who passed away this week,

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

none

miss ellie and mr gus

2010-09-08T11:39:00.000-05:00

so i got the test results back and there is not a dern thing wrong with neither of them .. all the test were normal or negative so now we have moved on and no one is sick. Miss Miah is also doin well. I took some pics of them and here are a few of my favs..

What I ment to say

2010-09-08T11:24:00.000-05:00

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SO yesterday morning I put my son on his school van and i notice my dog is heading up the hill.. i called and he didnt answer so about 20 minutes later i load my other kids up and are off to drop the hubby at work and kids at school.. we get up the road and there is the dog . layin in the road DEAD.. it was OBVIOUSLY hit by my son's school van while my son was on it. we are the only house and that was the only vehicle down that part of the road. so i called my sons school and talk to the van driver and his boss and this is what the van driver said to me.. Well I seen him along side of the road but if i hit him i didnt notice it, that road is so bumpy anyways. so i said well let me speak to your supervior.. what i meant to say was... wtf.. if you do not pay that much attention to notice you ran over a 150lb DOG you dont need to be driving children .. so there for my kid will NOT be riding that van anymore and the school WILL be paying me the $140 i paid for the dog or else i am goin to come UNGLUED....

Works for me Wednesday..

2010-09-08T10:48:00.000-05:00

So i keep a stack of magazines in a holder in the back of my truck so if im somewhere and bored i have something to do.. WELL i went to swap them out and noticed that they had some how gotten wet on the bottom and teh pages were sticking together so i separated each page and then used my blow dryer to dry them and now they are crinkled but dry and I saved my magazines. So that is what worked for me.. hope it works for you to and click HERE for more wednesdays

black and white wednesday

2010-09-08T09:34:00.000-05:00

Recently my husband was working out on a local
horse farm and i used the barn to take some fallish pics of the kids.. this is one of my faves.

wordfull and wordless wednesday.!!

2010-09-08T09:16:00.000-05:00

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Gus fell sleep in the car, and i took some pics of the kids at the barn we were at for some fun fall type pics.

Strain Family Update

2010-08-29T14:10:00.000-05:00

SO a little update on the family, Miss Miah is an aspiring beautician, she got the scissors down awhile back and cut a chunk out of her bangs and two big chunks out of the back the before and after are below.I was really disappointed I am not very happy about her boy hair cut.

Before she cut her hair

after she cut it..

Miss Ellie is sporting two new teeth on the bottom, rolling all over the place , really trying to sit up and saying da da da .. little stinker.. but an old wives tale says that what ever a little one says first as to momma or daddy that is the gender of the next baby . SO hopfully it is right. Gus deserves a little brother some day.we are still waiting on the results of her blood work that was sent of a few weeks back. you can read about her conditon HERE.

Ellie playing in the floor

And while we are speaking of mr. Gus. he is sick, his doctor thinks he has whooping cough on top of already having croup and bronchitis so we are waiting on his test results but he is allergic to the whooping cough vaccine the first time he got it he ended up in the e.r with a sever allergic reaction.SO if the test comes back positive who knows what is next.

here is a pic of MR . Handsome

so when we get the test results back from miss ellie and mr gus i will post them .. hope all is well with ya'll.

Friday Fill-Ins: #191

2010-08-27T13:40:00.000-05:00

Friday Fill-Ins: #191

Friday Fill In's

2010-08-27T13:39:00.000-05:00

And...here we go!

1. You do your thing; I do mine and sometimes _we should DO IT together.. ___.

2. __our relationship issues___ is what's been on my mind on and off all day.

3. Remember when __we were SO happy ___.

4. _knitting,crocheting and shopping____ are three of my favorite obsessions :-)

5. During the last year _ive had a baby , burried 3 close family members and my marriage is on the rocks____

6. my kids puts a smile on my face.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to HIGH SCHOOL FOOTBALL _, tomorrow my plans include _unpacking from our trip____ and Sunday, I want to __go to church and relax___!

Five Question Friday

2010-08-27T13:32:00.000-05:00

1. How many pets do you have?

*we have a dog, cat and Bunnie*

2. If you could switch places with anyone in the world for one day, who would it be?

*president obama so i could resign and let someone who has a dam clue step up and fix all the screw ups obama has made, and order our troops home..*

3. What is your favorite money saving tip?

*use cloth diapers and wipes*

4. What do you want your kids to be when they grow up?

* anything they want as long as it is legally and morally o.k.*

5. What is your favorite quote?

*Smack a few heads you get some respect* from the movie tombstone.

Aloha Friday

2010-08-27T09:32:00.000-05:00

Welcome to this week’s edition of Aloha Friday. In Hawaii, Aloha Friday is the day that we take it easy and look forward to the weekend. So I thought that on Fridays I would take it easy on posting, too.

Therefore, I’ll ask a simple question for you to answer. Nothing that requires a lengthy response. If you’d like to participate, just post your own question on your blog and leave your link below. Don’t forget to visit the other participants! It’s a great way to make new bloggy friends!

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So my question is this.. Did your kids go thru a screeching phase? Ellie has started to screech like a little owl when she is playing.. drives me crazy..

Friday Photo Flashbacks

2010-08-27T09:25:00.000-05:00

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recently My mom gave me a bunch of my baby pics.. and this is one from when i was about 4 yrs old. my mom and dad we were at my grandpa's and i was eating a ice cream sandwich..

Fawk You Friday

2010-08-27T08:42:00.000-05:00

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So a BIG Fawk YOU to my husband who got a raise to $14.oo per hour two weeks ago and had a steady job for several months (really hard if you are in construction right now) AND told that if they finished the job they would get a bonus.. FOR not having the balls to be an Indian when you are normally a chief and QUITTING your job cause you "couldn't take it" .. DOUCHE BAG!!! oh ya and thanks for discussing it with me first.. ass.. and now neither of us are working with 3 kids to support.. HONESTLY do men EVER use their brains?

Fawk you to the two little bottom teeth that broke threw my little ellies gums and caused her so must pain and in which she used to almost rip off my nipple with while nursing this morning..

Fawk You to that huge stack of laundry in my utility room just sitting there as to MOCK me. Why cant laundry be A sexual and DO IT"S SELF!!

Fawk You to my sons school bus who come at 6:20 am to pick him up and HONKS the horn even if i am standing outside with him and waking up my other kids.. thanks..

Happy home maker monday

2010-08-16T02:04:00.000-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:

Things that make me happy:

getting things accomplished

Book I'm reading:

Nothing at the moment

What I'm enjoying on TV:

nothing

On the menu for dinner:

BBQ pulled pork sandwichs' made in the crock pot.. OMG THEY ARE SO GOOD!!!

On my To Do List:

a once over of the house..finish moving miah in to her new room and ellie to..

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:

BurritoPizza

In the craft basket:

a pair of socks for miss Ellie and 2 pair for miss Mecca

Looking forward to this week:

School starts.. THANK YOU JESUS!!!!

Tips and Tricks:

ok ppl we live in the country and in the country there are all kinds of bugs and they get on my window sills and die and they are GROSS to clean up SO.. i put a piece of clear contact paper cut to the size of the inside of my window seal and when it looks gross i just simply take a garbage bag to the window and peel it up and toss it.. works great.. sometimes i do wipe it off but hey it works. and i dont have to touch dead bugs..

My favorite blog post this week:

This one at the cloth diaper whisper

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers)

This one about a PRESCHOOL homeschooling web site.. SO excited to start with my little ones.

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

miss ellie playin on her tummy ..

me and my gussy boy ..

little miss "tude"

Lesson learned the past few days:

sometimes you just feel helpless..

On my mind:

my sweet ellie girl ..and what the future holds for her and her new diagnosis of microcephaly

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

Phil. 2:3-4
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.

making your home sing monday

2010-08-16T01:20:00.000-05:00

Well things are getting done around the house but my heart is NOT singing.. IVe been struggling all week with some pretty heavy stuff. The tile laying, shower installing and new vanity for the bathroom is on hold, We also decided to move the extra stuff from the girls room that we were using for storage in to my sewing room now the storage room and to NOT rip up the carpet and paint the walls just yet but to go ahead and move the girls in to it the way it is. SO this weekend I reorganized my sewing room to make room for our extra stuff, we are goin to move the hubby's dresser out of the girls room in to our room and put up the crib FINALLY .. she is almost seven months old and move miah's toddler bed and her toys in to the room and then rearrange gus's room. so there is significant progress on the house.. but my heart is broken.. We took our six month old for her six month check up and her head was measuring a little on the small side so the doctor wanted a MRI done. we got the results back and she has been diagnosed with Microcephaly. you can Google it if you want more info . Basically her brain is smaller than it is supposed to be and it can cause SIGNIFICANT DELAYS. SO FAR.. she is hitting her milestones but it is a hurry up and wait game and I AM NOT a patient person..so hope you all are having a HAPPY MONDAY and read here for more mondays

Please Pray for MISS ELLIE!!!

2010-08-11T02:49:00.000-05:00

We took Miss Ellie for her six month check up and the doctor was conserned about the size of her head.. SO we had a MRI done and low and behold it is been determined she has something called Mircrocephaly. It is a conditon where the brain in her case the frontal, temperal and periatal lobes are much smaller than they should be. the other parts are of normal size. you can google it if you want more info ..right now im still in shock and trying to process it all myself.. She is developemental where she should be for a 5-6month old.. she was a preemie so she is a littel behind but notmuch.. Im tired and stressed to im off to bed .. here is a pic of my sweet little Ellie..

Tackle it Tuesday

2010-08-10T00:59:00.000-05:00

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So this week I m tackling reorganizing my linen's and towels as their old home was done away with when we moved the wall out to make room for the new jacuzzi tub. They are now throw up haphazardly in to their unfinished new home. It is where they are supposed to be when it gets completed. We have SEVERAL unfinished home renovation projects goin on right now and everything is out of place and pretty much driving me crazy!!!!

Post It Note Tuesday

2010-08-10T00:10:00.000-05:00

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SO here we go

Happy Homemaker Monday..

2010-08-09T01:11:00.002-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:

Tonight	Tomorrow	Tue	Wed	Thu
Mostly Clear	Partly Cloudy	Isolated T-storms	Isolated T-storms	Partly Cloudy
High: 93° Low: 74°	High: 94° Low: 74°	High: 98° Low: 76°	High: 94° Low: 74°	High: 95° Low: 73°

Things that make me happy:
bubble baths

Book I'm reading:
Nothing at the moment

What I'm enjoying on TV:
nothing

On the menu for dinner:
pot roast

On my To Do List:
a once over of the house..

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
BurritoPizza

In the craft basket:

a pair of socks for miss Ellie and 2 pair for miss Mecca

Looking forward to this week:
not having to go into town for ANYTHING..

Tips and Tricks:
none this week

My favorite blog post this week:
This one from Tales from the Quiver..

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):none

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):
me two beautiful daughters whom i can not be MORE proud of.. and my big boy on his first day of school..

Lesson learned the past few days:
Some time people are not WHO you think they are..

On my mind:
finishing this bathroom remodel

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses: This is for my father in law and his HARLOT!!!
1 Corinthians 6:12-20.
¹²"Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything. ¹³"Food for the stomach and the stomach for food"—but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. ¹⁴By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also. ¹⁵Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! ¹⁶Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."^[b] ¹⁷But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit. ¹⁸Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. ¹⁹Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; ²⁰you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.

Making your home sing Monday.

2010-08-09T00:34:00.000-05:00

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We are Still working on our bathroom, The water is back on Thank GOD!! but we are still with out a door, wall that divides the bathroom from the hall way and the wall at the end of the tub that hides the water heater and linen closet. The jacuzzi tub how ever does work and is GREAT!! we also have NO sink yet , no tile or shower head yet.. I hope maybe this weekend we will be able to finish the wall and install the tile and the sink and shower.. I did the "redneck thing" and hung a sheet up so we have some form of privacy while in the bathroom. Since there is NO wall. So all that stuff that was In the bathroom is now in what will be the girls room but i was using as a playroom, part is blocked off by doors waiting to be painted and put in. the other part was over flow for toys since miah and Gus are sharing a room until we get her and Ellie's room done. Miss Ellie is still sleeping in our room but IS sleeping thru the night.. YAY!! well she is up at around six am .. but so am i putting Gus on the bus for school so i consider it all night. In two weeks miss miah can go back to her preschool program and then i will only have miss Ellie home. I am thinking of getting a part time job . I wont know what to do with only one immobile child at home. The house will stay SO much cleaner cause i will have NO one home till around 3 ish to mess it up..So I need to organize the playroom so the toys are usable and the stuff from the bathroom is put up so the kids are safe, and a good ole once over the whole house.It is SO unorganized since we started this remodel.. things are out of place. The place i had for my sheets and towels was over the utility en-clove in the hall but that was eliminated to move the wall out for the new tub. So they are piled up in the soon to be new linen closet but has no shelves yet. SO maybe by tuesday my home will be singing.. Have a HAPPY MONDAY!!!

Tackle It Tuesday

2010-08-02T21:08:00.000-05:00

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So we this week we are tackling a long over due project. We ripped out our entire bathroom and laid new subfloor, installed a new jacuzzi tub, toilet , we are goin to paint the walls and lay tile this weekend so while we are working on it we are staying at my mother inlaws cause we have to keep the water turned off and no potty with 2 toddlers is not condusive to potty training.. hopefully next week i'll have some pics to post of my new bathroom.

happy homemaker monday

2010-07-25T23:00:00.000-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:
HOT HOT HOT.. in the 90's
Things that make me happy:
finally having my hubby stand up for me

Book I'm reading:
nothing

What I'm enjoying on TV:
nothing
On the menu for dinner:
garlic lime chicken fajita's
On my To Do List:
laundry, once over of the house.

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
garlic lime chicken fajita's

In the craft basket:

ellie's knitted dress ,miah's crochet dress, socks

Looking forward to this week:
catching up on laundry

Tips and Tricks:
none this week

My favorite blog post this week:

..this one HERE.. I need feed back people
Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers)

none

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

Lesson Learned this week
kids remember the simple things

On my mind:
please pray for me and hubby as we try to do what is best for us and our kids
Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:
Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. - Deuteronomy 31:6 (KJV)

making Your home sing Monday.

2010-07-25T22:42:00.000-05:00

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SO I have been on a hiatus for a few weeks just enjoying summer and time with my kids. We have all been sick at different times. I have been reorganizing and starting new organizing systems, rearranging the kitchen and trying to tackle my Laundry monster (IM LOSING).. Last weekend we took a small trip to Saint Louis about a 4 hr trip to hit the cotton babies $1.diaper sale, I got 25 bum genius 3.0's for $25 , i got 25 doubler inserts , a box of diaper determinant to try since the charlies soap was breaking my kids out in a nasty rash. and some repair kits to fix a few of my older bg's. so my diaper stash is SINGING.. and the rest of the house is " getting " there. It is hard to keep a clean house with a 4 yr old, 2 yr old, and 6 month old. Hope you have agood week.

my hiates

2010-07-20T00:32:00.001-05:00

well Ive not blogged in a while the kids have been sick Ive not felt well and we have been busy enjoying summer.. Ellie is requiring more attention so i have limited time on the computer..hope to get back soon..

Works For ME wednesday!

2010-07-14T06:41:00.000-05:00

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So I use cloth diapers and had purchased some Charlies Soap but I noticed that my younger two seem to get diaper rash from it.. so what other kinds of soap is out there that is working for y'all cause it aint working for me!!!

what i ment to say....

2010-07-14T06:34:00.000-05:00

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So I was cleaning my house the other day and my 4 yr old had her little play cleaning kit out and was "helping" me. She is great helper. I asked her to pick up a few dirty socks my husband had taken off in the living room and carry them to the dirty laundry. To which she replies.. HEY MOM... WHICH HUGE OLE PILE YOU WANT THEM IN.. so i said IT DONT MATTER HUNNY!!!

I wanted to say.. HOW DARE YOU notice how far behind I ve gotten on the laundry cause YOU change clothes 200 times a day when you are "playing" . but i didnt..

Friday Fill-Ins: #182

2010-06-25T12:32:00.001-05:00

Friday Fill-Ins: #182: "And...here we go!

1. On vacation, I like _____________.
2. _________ in the ocean.
3. One of my favorite vacation spots __________.
4. _____________ full moon.
5. Up, up and away ______________.
6. Bananas ________.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _____, tomorrow my plans include _____ and Sunday, I want to _____!"

Friday Fill Ins

2010-06-25T12:32:00.000-05:00

And...here we go!

1. On vacation, I like _hell what is a vacation._im a sahm no time off here!!!!___________.
2. ___would LOVE to swim with dolphins ______ in the ocean.
3. One of my favorite vacation spots __BRanson,Mo since that is the only place we ever go________.
4. _________LOVES____ full moon.
5. Up, up and away _with hateful assed bitchs____________.
6. Bananas ___have really slick peels. _____.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _getting rid of a migrane____, tomorrow my plans include _taking my girls to a pageant and then going to a rodeo and watching firworks____ and Sunday, I want to _go to church ____!

Five Question Friday

2010-06-25T11:50:00.000-05:00

1. Do you know how to play a musical instrument?

yes i can play the alto saxophone and piano.

2. What is your pet peeve while driving?

people talking on their cell phones and NOT paying attention

3. Would you rather have a housekeeper or unlimited spa services?

house keeper

4. Is there a song that you hear that will take you back to the moment, like a junior high or high school dance?

yup anything from green day's DOOKIE cd.

5. What song best represents your life right now?

I keep on Loving you by REBA

flip off and fawk you fridays

2010-06-25T06:24:00.000-05:00

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SO I am flipping off and saying Fawk you TO THE SITUATION DESCRIBED BELOW.. PLEASE LEAVE ME A COMMENT AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.!!!

This past week has been HELL.. Lets start off by saying this blog will be LONG, contain whining, bitching and cussing.. SO be warned.. Lets begin. JUNE 11.2010 our five yr anniversary, the anniversary of my dad's passing AND a man i called granddaddy passed THAT day. Did my husband tell me Happy Anniversary . NO , did he get me a card or gift or even flowers to acknowledge in ANY WAY shape or form that this day was special and sad for me .. HELL NO!!! fast forward to Sunday , visitation I went by my self , funeral i went alone with our oldest and youngest. On Tuesday I found out my father in law has a new love interest but that her HUSBAND has only been dead less than 2 weeks.. YUP .. HE passed on May 30th, 2010 and as of saturday June 12th, this chick has been staying at my Father in laws house and AINT left yet.. I think that is crazy .. shouldn't she let him harden up first.I just dont think two weeks is an appropriate amount of grievance time before screwing someone else. Well I am pretty good friends with my father in laws ex of seven years and her and I was discussing our feelings about this new woman. Mean while my husband read what i had typed. When he left for work wed morning the LAST thing i said to him was .. IF your dad's new piece is there YOU ARE NOT TO SPEAK TO HER !! she is not the kind of person i want around my husband.. I feel she has NO respect for her dead husband, decency ,or desecration. I DEFIANTLY dont want my children around her..So later in the day i get a anonymous email telling me that this bitch is accusing me of sending her a email with a fake facebook account calling her a slut. SO i emailed her ON MY facebook explaining to her that IF i had anything to say to her I would say it to her face and NOT hide behind a fake name .but if the shoe fit to wear it. Later that afternoon I called my father in laws house to ask my sister in law if she could cut my sons hair and my father in law answers the phone and proceeds to chew my ass for "emailing" his new piece. I told him IT was not me and when he asked me to apologize to her i told him HELL no i didn't do anything and he hung up on me. I was pissed. I told my hubby he needed to go over there and set his dad strait and explain that I DID NOT email her under the fake account. But like always HE refused to stand up and Defend me but I Couldn't figure out why , THEN he dropped a BOMB On me.. HE had thought I did send her a email and that HE was sorry .. I am like WHAT THE FUCK!!! NICE nothing like having your OWN husband throw you under a bus.. When he knows how much shit his family blames on me and when ever anything gets started I get BLAMED!!! and then he did that to me.. Talk about being betrayed. I lost it. I called my mother in law to come get my kids cause this was more than i could handle. I was ready to pack my stuff and leave. I can not be married to someone who will do this to me.I was so exhausted from crying and fighting i collapsed and slept. I had went to church Wed night and talked to the preacher about some Marriage counseling for our issue of him not being able to stand up for me prior to the bomb being dropped. SO when we began to discuss our issues Thursday morning he told me he didn't know why i was SO pissed of or why what he did was wrong. SO Friday we went to talk to the preacher and BOTH learned a lot about the way each other think about things and it was REALLY helpful for me to hear the man tell him he was WRONG!!! He did apologize but it will be a LONG time before I trust him again . Saturday and Sunday we practiced a few things the counselor asked us to do and the past two days have been the best two days we have had in FOREVER!! HE did go over to his dad's and set him strait, HE called his dad and asked him if is whore was goin to be there all weekend cause we wanted the kids to take him his fathers day present and he said he didn't know.. so hubby hung up . I was SO PISSED.. is it really to much to ask to zip your pants long enough to spend time with your grand-kids and son on fathers day .. SO i called him and give him ear full and he said he MIGHT come by .. but he NEVER DID.. Hubby is goin to talk to him when they go to work. The hubby and I have talked more this weekend about things than we have talked in several years.SO maybe now things will continue to get better.. SO what do you all think about my father in laws NEW woman.. what do you believe is the proper grieving time after losing a spouse to screw someone new???Am I wrong to not want my kids around her? One of the MAIN reasons we dont want our kids over there when he has "someone" there is he has a history of changing women like most ppl change socks and we dont want our girls growing up thinking it is ok to do that. HE wants to act like they are 15 yrs old and is all over them and touching and kissing and IF he wants to do that at his house that is fine but NOT in front of my girls. That is not a good example for them. Also I dont want them getting attached to someone and then him be done with them and I have to explain to my kids why so and so aint there anymore. now IF in six months or so she is still around we MIGHT talk about letting them go over there.. But from what i have read on HER facebook , her actions towards me and with my father in law i feel she has NO Integrity or class and NOT the kind of person I feel I should allow in my children's life. SO let me know AM i right or WRONG.??

Aloha Fridays

2010-06-25T06:07:00.000-05:00

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sO TELL ME WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS SITUATION..

This past week has been HELL.. Lets start off by saying this blog will be LONG, contain whining, bitching and cussing.. SO be warned.. Lets begin. JUNE 11.2010 our five yr anniversary, the anniversary of my dad's passing AND a man i called granddaddy passed THAT day. Did my husband tell me Happy Anniversary . NO , did he get me a card or gift or even flowers to acknowledge in ANY WAY shape or form that this day was special and sad for me .. HELL NO!!! fast forward to Sunday , visitation I went by my self , funeral i went alone with our oldest and youngest. On Tuesday I found out my father in law has a new love interest but that her HUSBAND has only been dead less than 2 weeks.. YUP .. HE passed on May 30th, 2010 and as of saturday June 12th, this chick has been staying at my Father in laws house and AINT left yet.. I think that is crazy .. shouldn't she let him harden up first.I just dont think two weeks is an appropriate amount of grievance time before screwing someone else. Well I am pretty good friends with my father in laws ex of seven years and her and I was discussing our feelings about this new woman. Mean while my husband read what i had typed. When he left for work wed morning the LAST thing i said to him was .. IF your dad's new piece is there YOU ARE NOT TO SPEAK TO HER !! she is not the kind of person i want around my husband.. I feel she has NO respect for her dead husband, decency ,or desecration. I DEFIANTLY dont want my children around her..So later in the day i get a anonymous email telling me that this bitch is accusing me of sending her a email with a fake facebook account calling her a slut. SO i emailed her ON MY facebook explaining to her that IF i had anything to say to her I would say it to her face and NOT hide behind a fake name .but if the shoe fit to wear it. Later that afternoon I called my father in laws house to ask my sister in law if she could cut my sons hair and my father in law answers the phone and proceeds to chew my ass for "emailing" his new piece. I told him IT was not me and when he asked me to apologize to her i told him HELL no i didn't do anything and he hung up on me. I was pissed. I told my hubby he needed to go over there and set his dad strait and explain that I DID NOT email her under the fake account. But like always HE refused to stand up and Defend me but I Couldn't figure out why , THEN he dropped a BOMB On me.. HE had thought I did send her a email and that HE was sorry .. I am like WHAT THE FUCK!!! NICE nothing like having your OWN husband throw you under a bus.. When he knows how much shit his family blames on me and when ever anything gets started I get BLAMED!!! and then he did that to me.. Talk about being betrayed. I lost it. I called my mother in law to come get my kids cause this was more than i could handle. I was ready to pack my stuff and leave. I can not be married to someone who will do this to me.I was so exhausted from crying and fighting i collapsed and slept. I had went to church Wed night and talked to the preacher about some Marriage counseling for our issue of him not being able to stand up for me prior to the bomb being dropped. SO when we began to discuss our issues Thursday morning he told me he didn't know why i was SO pissed of or why what he did was wrong. SO Friday we went to talk to the preacher and BOTH learned a lot about the way each other think about things and it was REALLY helpful for me to hear the man tell him he was WRONG!!! He did apologize but it will be a LONG time before I trust him again . Saturday and Sunday we practiced a few things the counselor asked us to do and the past two days have been the best two days we have had in FOREVER!! HE did go over to his dad's and set him strait, HE called his dad and asked him if is whore was goin to be there all weekend cause we wanted the kids to take him his fathers day present and he said he didn't know.. so hubby hung up . I was SO PISSED.. is it really to much to ask to zip your pants long enough to spend time with your grand-kids and son on fathers day .. SO i called him and give him ear full and he said he MIGHT come by .. but he NEVER DID.. or if he did we were gone to church. Hubby is goin to talk to him when they go to work. The hubby and I have talked more this weekend about things than we have talked in several years.SO maybe now things will continue to get better.. SO what do you all think about my father in laws NEW woman.. what do you believe is the proper grieving time after losing a spouse to screw someone new???Am I wrong to not want my kids around her? One of the MAIN reasons we dont want our kids over there when he has "someone" there is he has a history of changing women like most ppl change socks and we dont want our girls growing up thinking it is ok to do that. HE wants to act like they are 15 yrs old and is all over them and touching and kissing and IF he wants to do that at his house that is fine but NOT in front of my girls. That is not a good example for them. Also I dont want them getting attached to someone and then him be done with them and I have to explain to my kids why so and so aint there anymore. now IF in six months or so she is still around we MIGHT talk about letting them go over there.. But from what i have read on HER facebook , her actions towards me and with my father in law i feel she has NO Integrity or class and NOT the kind of person I feel I should allow in my children's life. SO let me know AM i right or WRONG.??

post it note tuesday!!

2010-06-22T16:22:00.000-05:00

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hey

REMEMBER to marrow is HUMP day!!!

Making your home sing Monday.

2010-06-21T15:27:00.000-05:00

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So my home is singing, this past week there was crack in the foundation read about that HERE. But the repair work has began and things are MUCH better than they have been literally in YEARS. I'm caught up on the dish's, all the toys are sorted and put away , all the floors have been de-cluttered, swept and mopped, fridge cleaned out, closets cleaned out.So i still have the normal stuff to do but It feels good to be caught up .

Happy HomemakerMOnday

2010-06-21T02:31:00.000-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:
warm and humid
Things that make me happy:
putting the past behind and moving forward

Book I'm reading:
Susannah's Flowers hop by Debbie ma
comber

What I'm enjoying on TV:
nothing
On the menu for dinner:
burgers and fries
On my To Do List:
put away laundry, hang out diapers, unload and reload dishwasher

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
black bean salsa

In the craft basket:

ellie's knitted dress ,miah's crochet dress, socks

Looking forward to this week:
having hubby FINALLY stand up to his family and give his dad a "talking" to .

Tips and Tricks:
ever heard of WONDER HANGER..they are Great.i got mine at walgreens i love them.. You can enter a give away to win a set HERE!!!

My favorite blog post this week:
..this one HERE..
Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers)

(In) Courage

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):
this is my FAVORITE Pic of my and my daddy .. I was FIVE..

in Honor of Fathers day a pic of my daddy .. I Love him ..RIP DADDY !!!

Lesson Learned this week
some people only care about them selves

On my mind:
alot
Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:
Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. - Matthew 5:10 (KJV)

Hell of a week,

2010-06-21T02:14:00.000-05:00

This past week has been HELL.. Lets start off by saying this blog will be LONG, contain whining, bitching and cussing.. SO be warned.. Lets begin. JUNE 11.2010 our five yr anniversary, the anniversary of my dad's passing AND a man i called granddaddy passed THAT day. Did my husband tell me Happy Anniversary . NO , did he get me a card or gift or even flowers to acknowledge in ANY WAY shape or form that this day was special and sad for me .. HELL NO!!! fast forward to Sunday , visitation I went by my self , funeral i went alone with our oldest and youngest. On Tuesday I found out my father in law has a new love interest but that her HUSBAND has only been dead less than 2 weeks.. YUP .. HE passed on May 30th, 2010 and as of saturday June 12th, this chick has been staying at my Father in laws house and AINT left yet.. I think that is crazy .. shouldn't she let him harden up first.I just dont think two weeks is an appropriate amount of grievance time before screwing someone else. Well I am pretty good friends with my father in laws ex of seven years and her and I was discussing our feelings about this new woman. Mean while my husband read what i had typed. When he left for work wed morning the LAST thing i said to him was .. IF your dad's new piece is there YOU ARE NOT TO SPEAK TO HER !! she is not the kind of person i want around my husband.. I feel she has NO respect for her dead husband, decency ,or desecration. I DEFIANTLY dont want my children around her..So later in the day i get a anonymous email telling me that this bitch is accusing me of sending her a email with a fake facebook account calling her a slut. SO i emailed her ON MY facebook explaining to her that IF i had anything to say to her I would say it to her face and NOT hide behind a fake name .but if the shoe fit to wear it. Later that afternoon I called my father in laws house to ask my sister in law if she could cut my sons hair and my father in law answers the phone and proceeds to chew my ass for "emailing" his new piece. I told him IT was not me and when he asked me to apologize to her i told him HELL no i didn't do anything and he hung up on me. I was pissed. I told my hubby he needed to go over there and set his dad strait and explain that I DID NOT email her under the fake account. But like always HE refused to stand up and Defend me but I Couldn't figure out why , THEN he dropped a BOMB On me.. HE had thought I did send her a email and that HE was sorry .. I am like WHAT THE FUCK!!! NICE nothing like having your OWN husband throw you under a bus.. When he knows how much shit his family blames on me and when ever anything gets started I get BLAMED!!! and then he did that to me.. Talk about being betrayed. I lost it. I called my mother in law to come get my kids cause this was more than i could handle. I was ready to pack my stuff and leave. I can not be married to someone who will do this to me.I was so exhausted from crying and fighting i collapsed and slept. I had went to church Wed night and talked to the preacher about some Marriage counseling for our issue of him not being able to stand up for me prior to the bomb being dropped. SO when we began to discuss our issues Thursday morning he told me he didn't know why i was SO pissed of or why what he did was wrong. SO Friday we went to talk to the preacher and BOTH learned a lot about the way each other think about things and it was REALLY helpful for me to hear the man tell him he was WRONG!!! He did apologize but it will be a LONG time before I trust him again . Saturday and Sunday we practiced a few things the counselor asked us to do and the past two days have been the best two days we have had in FOREVER!! HE did go over to his dad's and set him strait, HE called his dad and asked him if is whore was goin to be there all weekend cause we wanted the kids to take him his fathers day present and he said he didn't know.. so hubby hung up . I was SO PISSED.. is it really to much to ask to zip your pants long enough to spend time with your grand-kids and son on fathers day .. SO i called him and give him ear full and he said he MIGHT come by .. but he NEVER DID.. or if he did we were gone to church. Hubby is goin to talk to him when they go to work. The hubby and I have talked more this weekend about things than we have talked in several years.SO maybe now things will continue to get better.. SO what do you all think about my father in laws NEW woman.. what do you believe is the proper grieving time after losing a spouse to screw someone new???Am I wrong to not want my kids around her? One of the MAIN reasons we dont want our kids over there when he has "someone" there is he has a history of changing women like most ppl change socks and we dont want our girls growing up thinking it is ok to do that. HE wants to act like they are 15 yrs old and is all over them and touching and kissing and IF he wants to do that at his house that is fine but NOT in front of my girls. That is not a good example for them. Also I dont want them getting attached to someone and then him be done with them and I have to explain to my kids why so and so aint there anymore. now IF in six months or so she is still around we MIGHT talk about letting them go over there.. But from what i have read on HER facebook , her actions towards me and with my father in law i feel she has NO Integrity or class and NOT the kind of person I feel I should allow in my children's life. SO let me know AM i right or WRONG.??

Happy Homemaker Monday

2010-06-14T11:34:00.000-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:
well it is 6.38 am so nice an cool FOR NOW.. goin be in the upper 80's later
Things that make me happy:
reconnecting with old friends

Book I'm reading:
Susanna's Flowershop by debbie macomber

What I'm enjoying on TV:
nothing
On the menu for dinner:
dont know yet
On my To Do List:
not much today other than a funeral.

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
butter pecan ice cream pie

In the craft basket:

ellie's knitted dress ,miah's crochet dress, socks

Looking forward to this week:
Getting my kitchen reorganized cause i got a new table

Tips and Tricks:
ever heard of WONDER HANGER..they are Great.i got mine at walgreens i love them..

My favorite blog post this week:
..this one HERE..
Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers)

(In) Courage

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

Granddaddy.. RIP.. I LOVE YOU..

Lesson Learned this week
the unexpected can happen at any time

On my mind:
my mimi.. my granddaddy passed away Friday suddenly from a heart attack and today is his services
Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:
Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. - Deuteronomy 31:6 (KJV)

Wordfull, wordless and black and white wednesday.

2010-06-09T15:04:00.001-05:00

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another pic from our day at the lake..

Works for me wednesday

2010-06-09T14:44:00.000-05:00

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So this is what works for me.. I have 2 little girls with a TON of hair clips, bows, headbands, pony holders ect. I organize them using old baby wipe containers..they can drop them in the whole when they are ready to put them away and then open the whole thing when they need something out. I love it. and the tubs are kinda see thru so i can see what is in each with out labeling. Happy Hump Day!!

Post IT note Tuesdays

2010-06-08T01:09:00.000-05:00

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Tackle it Tuesdays

2010-06-08T00:38:00.000-05:00

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We are getting more work done on our addition and this weekend hubby tackled hanging a second closet rod and a shelf in our closet and my son's. But in order to do that i had to remove all the contents of the closet. SO I am tackling reorganizing my closets and since it is all being re hung I thought I might take most my winter stuff and put it in my space-bags which i LOVE!! and put on the top shelf to store..SO purging and sorting is what I'm Tackling.. remember tomorrow is HUMP day ..

Getting to know you Sunday!

2010-06-07T00:58:00.000-05:00

1. If a person has a booger in their nose. and you can see it, do you tell them?

yes.. that is gross
2. What are you passionate about?
cloth diapering, crochet and knitting
3. How long have you been blogging?
almost two yrs
4. What is your favorite "summer" drink?
sweet tea
5. What is your favorite type of music?
country
6. Something I do before I go to bed is......?
spend hrs on my blog.
7. My Summer vacation plans are...?
not much..we live a quarter of a mile from the lake and own a boat we swim 2-3 days a week at the beach .go fishing alot and ride in the boat.
8. My favorite must have, can't live without, beauty product is?
dont have one. i dont wear make up very often the only thing i do is wash my face with Noxzema cream when i shower.

making your home sing monday

2010-06-07T00:45:00.000-05:00

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this weekend we got the rest of our closet shelving installed so now i have to re hang all the laundry up that is my to do list for tomorrow. We also got the yard mowed. it was starting to look like a jungle in the back..Lucky we didn't find any unwanted animals.. Although we did find sissy's long lost tricycle..YOU MIGHT BE A REDNECK IF.. comes to mind.. SO that is what is making my home sing .Getting things finished up on our add-on. I will be SO glad when we are done moving stuff from room to room and it all has its own place. AND hubby finally went and had "THE TALK" with his sisters so maybe that is settled for a while. I have really been lead to go talk to her myself and try to mend the bridge so to say, FIND out what it is i have done to make her dis like me so much and apologize so we can just move forward and begin to be a WHOLE family and treat each other with respect and like adults should..what do you think should i or just leave it alone and be good with her ignoring me?

Happy homemaker monday

2010-06-07T00:32:00.003-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:
hot and humid.but IM not complaing after the COLD ASS winter we had..
Things that make me happy:
swimming at the lake

Book I'm reading:
Back on Blossom Street by debbie macomber

What I'm enjoying on TV:
nothing
On the menu for dinner:
brats , tater salad, coleslaw, and mac salad
On my To Do List:
rehang all the laundry in my newly installed closet rods, dish's, sweep , mop.

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
butter pecan ice cream pie

In the craft basket:

ellie's knitted dress ,miah's crochet dress, socks

Looking forward to this week:
organizing parts of my house

Tips and Tricks:
if you live in the country like i do and are outside if you put mouthwash in a spray bottle and spray it around where you are sitting it repels bugs..

My favorite blog post this week:
..this one HERE..
Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers)
the persimmon perch

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):
I found this funny..YES it is real.. located out side of stacy, wy..

Lesson Learned this week
karma is a bitch..

On my mind:
a lot of stuff i cant type on here.
Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:
Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. - Deuteronomy 31:6 (KJV)

flip off and fawk you fridays

2010-06-04T01:08:00.000-05:00

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SO a big FAWK YOU AND FLIP OFF to the local dentist who wont see my four yr old with a chipped front tooth and is making us drive FOUR hrs to FAYETTEVILLE to see a specialist .

AND to the dentist at FAYETTEVILLE who is making her wait until TUESDAY to be seen.

ALSO to the electric company.. I KNOW our bill is due on the 14th of the month but if my payment isn't at your mailbox buy the 16th you send out a disconnect notice.. YOU KNOW where you can STICK THAT NOTICE.. in YOUR ASS!!! You over charge me and then when we have a ice storm i am with out power for TWENTY DAYS and my bill is only 20 bucks less than any other time.. with NO EXPLANATION.. SO FAWK YOU!! and the other two electric providers recently decreased their rates while you raised yours. (THIS IS ME FLIPPIN YOU OFF)

And to my HUGE PILE of laundry who taunts me by falling over in the floor.. TWO FINGERS TO YOU!!!

Friday Photo Flashback

2010-06-04T00:28:00.001-05:00

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these are pics of our last four memorial days..
this is our first memorial day as a married couple and a family . 2006

our second memorial day i was expecting gus.2007

2008

2009

2010

Aloha Friday

2010-06-04T00:20:00.000-05:00

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My question is does anyone know how to strip your cloth diapers? Ellie's are starting to STINK!!The laundry soap I use is a homemade one it is one bar of grated Feths naphtha bar with one cup of borax and one cup of washing soda. HELP PLEASE?

Five Question Friday

2010-06-03T22:34:00.000-05:00

1. If you could go back to college would you change your major? Or, if you were to go to college right now...what major would you choose?

I would NOT change my major i would just study more and finish my degree.

2. What do you love most about your home?

My bedroom

3. What types of books do you like to read (if you like to read at all)?

Christain fiction, especially things with Amish or Mennonite themes

4. What is the grossest thing you've ever eaten?

Rocky Mtn. Oysters

5. If you HAD to be a character on a TV show, whom would you be?

The Jeanie on I dream of Jeanie so i could twitch my nose and the house be cleaned..

Friday Fill Ins

2010-06-03T22:19:00.000-05:00

Thursday, June 3, 2010

#179

And...here we go!

1. _____Branson,MO________ is my favorite place to travel to.
2. When I think about my childhood, I often remember __things i did with my dad_______.
3. ___Common Since _______ makes for a good friend.
4. The wind in the trees, the rain on my skin, ____sand in my butt crack _________.
5. _____sex on the beach_________ is so exciting!
6. My best friend knows __EVERYTHING about me______.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _more house work____, tomorrow my plans include _crocheting ____ and Sunday, I want to ___go to church__!

Ment to say Wednesday!

2010-06-02T01:42:00.000-05:00

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Me: Miah go clean your room PLEASE..

Miah: I cant there are too many toys out..

Me: well you put them there you pick them up

Miah: Its not fair .. YOUR THE MOMMY you pick them up i m just a little girl.

Me: you are old enough at four to pick up after your self.

Miah: Well back in the 80's when i was a baby you did it for me..
ME: try to keep my composer.. GO CLEAN YOUR ROOM or i'm getting a garbage sack and throwing them away..

Miah: OK geesh..seriously this is "rediclious" relax mom.. im going .
and as she rounds the corner she sees her brother gus and says.. "better not go in there mom needs a chill pill"

THIS MADE ME BUST UP.. SHE IS FOUR.. ahh kids..

Works For me Wednesday.

2010-06-02T01:31:00.000-05:00

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So this weekend we took the kids to the local amusement park about 2 hrs away. Having a four year old , 2 yr old who is potty training and a four month old i have to pack a TON of stuff but i found a way to make that stuff take up LESS room.I used Space bags..

if you pack everyone's cloths in a space bag when you travel it only takes US one bag for all three kids and i cloth diaper so i have to pack diapers and cloth wipes plus my wet bag. and one bag for me and hubby. you can also pack linens , towls blanket.. IT saves TON of space i also use one for my yarn to.. I can take SO much more yarn that way. So that is what worked for me.. Hope everyone is Having a great Week.

Black and white Wednesday , Wordful and Wordless Wednesday

2010-06-02T01:19:00.000-05:00

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Here is a Pic of my sweet kids on the beach by our house at the lake

Follow ME back Tuesday

2010-06-01T10:43:00.000-05:00

Follow Me Back Tuesday ~June 1st

so i found this new MEME.. I just copied what i read a pasted cause im lazy and it was easy.

Follow Me Back Tuesday is hosted by Survey Junkie, Little Yaya's, Review Retreat and Boobies,BabiesAndABlog

How it Works

1. Add your blog to the list ( Do this over at any of the hosted blogs above! )
2. Grab their NEW button & the link code to post on your blog.
3. Follow all 4 hostesses above and then as many other blogs as you would like.
4. After you follow a new blog make sure you leave them a comment letting them know that you are now a follower so that they can follow you back. Don't forget to return follows!

See super simple! You will find some really great blogs to follow and some great giveaways too. Make sure to leave me a comment with your blog url for a follow back please.

Getting to know you sunday

2010-05-30T22:38:00.000-05:00

Getting to know YOU

It's Sunday!

Let's make it a FUN DAY..So if you're not busy and want to play along to a super rad blog carnival..you won't be sorry..It's the bee's knees! (just my humble opinion);-)

To play..copy the questions..post them..than come back here and link up!

1. Have you ever snooped around someone else's house?
not snooped but looked at really good
2. Can guys and girls be friends? ( thanks Jen!)
they can IF neither is married.. I dont think there is any reason why a married man or woman should have a best friend of the opposite sex besides their spouse.
3. Can you curl your tongue?
yup two ways
4. Have you ever stolen anything?
nope
5. Would you rather talk on the phone or text?
talk on the land line since i have no cell phone
6. Memorial Day plans?
goin to silver dollar city
7. What do you do to relax?
crochet , read, knit
8. Do you do anything to honor those that have died fighting for our freedom?
no.. i should.. i pray for those currently fighting for us.

Friday Fill In's

2010-05-28T00:25:00.000-05:00

Thursday, May 27, 2010

#178

Happy Memorial Day weekend to all who celebrate it :-)

And...here we go!

1. ______hamburgers, pickle and butterfinger pie_______ -- the best food to take on a picnic.
2. Summer __is awesome_______.
3. ________i love __ flip flops.(honestly I own one pair of cowgirl boots, one pair of dress shoes and about 100 pairs of flip flops .. all i wear even when it snows is flip flops..
4. To love someone is __stand up for them and do what is right.. (read my frustrations HERE)___________.
5. ______I would like to tell them to ________ a long hike.Off a short pier..
6. When I crave food, it's usually _JUNK.._______.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _a quiet night home____, tomorrow my plans include _goin to silver dollar city ____ and Sunday, I want to _do more work on the house____!

Fawk YOU and ALoha Friday..

2010-05-28T00:03:00.000-05:00

I am combining two meme's today Fawk You Friday and Aloha Friday ..

First of a BIG FAWK YOU to my bitch ass meddling sister in law
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Fawk YOu to family services for believing the above mentioning when then have not been in my house EVER!!

and most of all FAWK YOU HUBBY for not using the balls god gave you to put a stop to it..

And now for the aloha friday portion.. WHAT SHOULD WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE IN MY SHOES??

Here is Conversation between the hubster and myself.

ME: can you tell your two meddling sisters to keep their mouths shut and STOP telling everyone that they think I am a bad mom , bad wife and mistreat you and how dirty our house.. NONE of these things are true and neither of them have been in OUR house, the younger one in six months the other one NEVER has been in my house.and that you DON'T want your crazy ass ex wife back and that I am NOT goin anywhere.If they don't want to be my friend or even talk TO me that is WONDERFUL.. I just want the drama and shit stirring to stop. and they should have enough respect for YOU as their brother to see if you are happy to leave well enough alone. and to STOP hacking in to MY blog and stalking every single thing i write on facebook,myspace, blog or email and printing it out to "show"others how I am..we are NOT 12 yrs old and only one of the three of us is still in high school and her for another 3 days.. GROW THE FLUCK UP!! ACT LIKE AN ADULT and I'm sorry your life is SO miserable you have to act this way to entertain your pathetic self's. and maybe you shouldn't cast stones if you live in a glass house.. WHO has moved out of their own house , ran their hubby off to his moms and living with THEIR daddy cause they cant make their own marriage work..NOT ME. Stop turning me in to family services trying to get my kids taken away.with the above lies..

P.S. I hope you two bitches are reading this right now and can go FLUCK yourselves..

Hubby: What do you want me to do ? It wont do any good they are both spoiled ass backstabbing worthless bitches..-YES this is a direct quote which is SURPRISING to here hubby say anything like this if you know him.. He is VERY passive..

Me: because It is YOUR job to stand up for your wife and kids and put them in their places, IF you dont agree with what they are saying or the way they treat me then YOU should set them strait..

Hubby: well I dont know..

I really want to smack him

Five Question Friday.

2010-05-27T23:49:00.000-05:00

It's that time again! Five Question Friday with Mama M!

1. Is there something you've always wanted to try but just can't muster up the courage to actually do yet?
how to dive in to water.. i never learned to dive.. .

2. If you had $100 handed to you in cash without your significant other knowing about it, what would you spend it on? I would buy him a birthday present and a fathers day gift they are both next month

3. What was your favorite piece of playground equipment as a child? teeter totter..

4. Do you prefer a sweet or hearty breakfast? I dont hardly ever eat breakfast

5. Are you a Neat Freak or a Messy Bessy? I am in between..I wish I was more neat freak.

wordful and wordless wednesday.

2010-05-26T14:42:00.000-05:00

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This is a pic of my father in law and his ONLY two granddaughters and both just happen to be mine. he also has two grandsons only one of them is mine.. ... Ellie is only 4 days old in this pic.

Works for me Wednesday..

2010-05-26T09:14:00.000-05:00

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SO we are cloth diapering our sweet Ellie. Both the older two are out of diapers (THANK YOU JESUS)

I love my cloth diapers. BUT at night she always pees threw her bum genius. I have tried G pants and Fuzzi bunz and Ive tried putting a prefold as as doubler in each of the above mentions. She is four months old now and some nights sleeps several hours at a time, Ive noticed when she is SOAKED she wakes up cring..I dont blame who wants to sleep in a puddle of PEE? NOT me.. SO I bought some Thirties diaper covers and they help from getting the sheets wet but she is still soaked.. SO any suggestions as to what Work for me. I m sure if she was drier she MIGHT sleep threw the night..that would be WONDERFUL..

What I ment to say

2010-05-26T08:32:00.000-05:00

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Here is Conversation between the hubster and myself..

ME: can you tell your two meddling sisters to keep their mouths shut and STOP telling everyone that they think I am a bad mom , bad wife and mistreat you and how dirty our house.. NONE of these things are true and neither of them have been in OUR house, the younger one in three months the other one NEVER has been in my house.and that you DON'T want your crazy ass ex wife back and that I am NOT goin anywhere.If they don't want to be my friend or even talk TO me that is WONDERFUL.. I just want the drama and shit stirring to stop. and they should have enough respect for YOU as their brother to see if you are happy to leave well enough alone. and to STOP hacking in to MY blog and stalking every single thing i write on facebook,myspace, blog or email and printing it out to "show"others how I am..we are NOT 12 yrs old and only one of the three of us is still in high school and her for another 3 days.. GROW THE FLUCK UP!! ACT LIKE AN ADULT and I'm sorry your life is SO miserable you have to act this way to entertain your pathetic self's. and maybe you shouldn't cast stones if you live in a glass house.. WHO has moved out of their own house , ran their hubby off to his moms and living with THEIR daddy cause they cant make their own marriage work..NOT ME.

P.S. I hope you two bitches are reading this right now and can go FLUCK yourselves..

Hubby: What do you want me to do ? It wont do any good they are both spoiled ass backstabbing worthless bitches..-YES this is a direct quote which is SURPRISING to here hubby say anything like this if you know him.. He is VERY passive..

Me: because It is YOUR job to stand up for your wife and kids and put them in their places, IF you dont agree with what they are saying or the way they treat me then YOU should set them strait..

Hubby: well I dont know..

WHAT I WANTED TO SAY

Use the BALLS god gave you tell those bitches to shut the hell up or I'm goin to open a can of country WHOOP ass!!and IF you cant stand up for me then what will it take for them to finally push you over the edge..??? GRR..

Id welcome any advice in this situation??
HE wont let me Smack the hell out of them and he really dont want to say anything to them.

Happy homemaker monday

2010-05-24T17:21:00.000-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:
today was 89 degrees

Things that make me happy:
when my hubby shows how much he loves me .

Book I'm reading:
A Good Yarn by debbie macomber

What I'm enjoying on TV:
nothing

On the menu for dinner:
stuffed bell peppers

On my To Do List:
fold and put away laundry,
sweep and mop , change sheets,

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
pumpkin muffins

In the craft basket:

ellie's knitted dress ,miah's crochet dress, socks

Looking forward to this week:
organizing parts of my house

Tips and Tricks:
when you are above 30 PLEASE dont try to dress and or act like you are 16. and PEOPLE spandex is a privilege not a RIGHT!!!

My favorite blog post this week:
this one here of mine
Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):none

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):
these are the little babie those BLIND judges decied were SO much cuter than...

THIS.. i think they each need a eye exam.. My Sweet ELLIE's stinky diaper is cuter than all four of those babies put together (just my option)

Lesson learned the past few days:
when you think someone is your friend.. sometimes they are NOT!!

On my mind:
alot of stuff i cant type on here.
Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:
Apply thine heart unto instruction, and thine ears to the words of knowledge. - Proverbs 16:31 (KJV)

making your home sing monday

2010-05-24T04:42:00.000-05:00

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Well after all the shit that has been pulled by my 2 two faced lying asses sister in law hubby has finally had enough and is goin over tonight to have a discussion with them. They have cause enough problems in our marriage and in my poor mother in laws life. They have been treating their own mother like crap and hubby is a big momma's boy.. So I think when he seen that they were hurting to two women he loved the most it pushed him over the edge. and that is goin to make my home sing .. for those bitch's to get what they deserve.

Getting to know you sunday

2010-05-24T02:20:00.000-05:00

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Getting to know YOU Sunday's

The questions..

1. Do you have a fetish?
spank me baby hard.. OK just joking.. unless you count my inablitity to stop purchasing yarn for my crocheting and knitting addiction NO..
2. Do you sing in the shower?
no cause i never shower alone..
3. Who was your first crush?
micheal jackson.. i told my mom and grandma when i was 3 i was goin to marry him..LOL
4. What do you think is the best manly trait a guy could have?
the ability to stand up to his family and defend you as his wife and your marriage.
5. Do you sleep naked?
nope i have to wear a nursing bra right now but when there is not a kid in my bed or im not nursing there is good possiblity of it.
6. What do you do when (you think) no one is looking?
drink out of the chocolate milk jug or sneak candy while the kiddies aint looking
7. What's the first thing you do when you go online?
check my facebook, email, and blog
8. Summer is.....?

is my favorite season .. we live less than a quarter of a mile from the lake.. we swim , fish ,camp, boat all summer.. plus there is the rodeo, truck pulls and trips to amusement parks.

Friday Fives..

2010-05-21T11:53:00.000-05:00

Friday Fives...

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This weeks Friday Fives is 5 Health Tips....

mine are

1. IF YOU are married have sex. It has been proven to help burn calories, relieve stress.and it is fun.

2. Chocolate can also help with moodiness, and has some good stuff it is dark expecially

3.for your mental health dont bottle everything up inside and explode let it out to someone you trust

4.please dress age appropriate, my my gastrointestinal health dont walk around walmart trying to look 16 when you are well over 30 or in something 5 sizes to small.

5.get some fresh air every day .. it is good for ya.. or my granny used to say so.

Aloha Fridays

2010-05-21T05:09:00.000-05:00

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Welcome to this week’s edition of Aloha Friday. In Hawaii, Aloha Friday is the day that they take it easy and look forward to the weekend. So I thought that on Fridays I would take it easy on posting, too.

Therefore, I’ll ask a simple question for you to answer. Nothing that requires a lengthy response. If you’d like to participate, just post your own question on your blog and leave your link below. Don’t forget to visit the other participants! It’s a great way to make new bloggy friends!

My question this week is.. IF you could go back and ask 3 questions to some one who passed or tell them something what would it be???
Yesterday would have been my dads 55th birthday , I miss him SO much even though it has been almost FIVE yrs since he passed away on my wedding day. There is still so much I would love to ask him but most of all I wish he could have met and spoiled his grand-kids. my father in law are my kids only grandpa and he is " not in to birthdays" as he says so he NEVER comes to a birthday party unless it was at his house then he was only there by default.. THIS PISSES ME OFF.. you couldn't have kept my daddy away from one.. My father in law is also not into Christmas or any other family type holiday.. my dad was. and i feel sometimes like my kids are being cheated out of what i had growing up cause my father in law wants to be an asshole..oh enough ranting.. hope you all have good weekend.. enjoy it.

Friday Photo Flashbacks

2010-05-21T04:55:00.000-05:00

click on over to Alica's for more flashbacks

remember this pic from 2 weeks ago..

Well Yesterday would have been my daddies 55th birthday and while i was goin thru some movies of him playing music i found this clip of him around the same time this pic was taken. you will have to forgive the quality of the video cause IT WAS THE 70'S people.. and i was yet to be born..he is on the left side playing the bass.

Show Us Your LIfe Friday - Show us Your Hometown

2010-05-21T02:05:00.000-05:00

Be sure to see where Kelly is from HERE!

OK y'all I'm from a little town called Mountain Grove , Missouri. I currently live in Clarkridge, AR about 1 miles north of Mtn. Home,AR . I went to school from kindergarten thru 12th grade here. GO PANTHERS!!! I was a cheerleader, in the band, ran track , played basketball, volleyball and was in the Marine corps ROTC program during high school. Below are pics of the high school sign , the MSU College building and a pic of the square.

Friday Fill In's

2010-05-21T00:59:00.000-05:00

#177

And...here we go!

1. ____my children_________ never fails to make me smile.
2. I'm looking forward to __a busy weekend filled with family activites_______.
3. __my dad singing on a home movie ________ is what I'm listening to right now.
4. Potato salad must have __mustard, onions and boiled eggs___________ in it!
5. ___sonic burger___________ was the best thing I ate today.
6. Today was __my dad's birthday (doin this on Thursday Night) he would have been 55. RIP daddy i love you and miss you ..______.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _goin to a truck pull (on friday night )____, tomorrow my plans include _shopping for building supplies in the morining, the girls have a pageant in the afternoon then free movie in the park saturday night ____ and Sunday, I want to _go to silver dollar city and have fun with the kids__!

Five Question Friday

2010-05-21T00:48:00.000-05:00

Questions for Friday, May 21st: Make Sure to head to Mama M's for more fridays

1. Do you have an iPhone and, if so, how do you get apps and what are your favorites? no we dont even own cell phones.. we have a land line but no answering machine or voice mail.

2. What is your fondest memory of K-3rd grade?

my kindergarten teacher Mrs Talley . I loved her I remember how nice she was.. She is still teaching at my old school.

3. What makes you cringe at the thought of touching?

dead mice .. our STUPID cat likes to be head them then leave the rest laying around the yard. OR snakes..wanna hear a country girl scream.. so me a snake and say GOOD BYE to your ear drums

4. If you could have any celebrity show up on your doorstep who would it be and why?Reba McIntyre and George Strait.. cause they are my 2 favorite singers.. although if Brett Micheal's wanted some action Id be game..LOL

5. What would you say is your best physical feature?

Defiantly my boobs.. they are HUGE (ya ya tmi) they are a 38ddd or while im nursing like NOW a 38F. try to find a sexy bra to wear in that size.. IT AINT HAPPIN..

Happy homemaker sunday

2010-05-17T18:02:00.000-05:00

The weather in my neck of the woods:
sunny and breezy

Things that make me happy:
seeing my kids play nicely together

Book I'm reading:
A Good Yarn by debbie macomber

What I'm enjoying on TV:
the news

On the menu for dinner:
pork tenderlion and corn on the cob

On my To Do List:
fold and put away laundry,
sweep and mop , change sheets,

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
none

In the craft basket:

ellie's knitted dress ,miah's crochet dress, socks

Looking forward to this week:
organizingparts of my house

Tips and Tricks:
tooth paste removes crayon marks from hardwood floors

My favorite blog post this week:
none

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):none

No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

my new boots

Lesson learned the past few days:
you cant plan everything.. live alittle and go with the flow

On my mind:
how excited i am that my house will be out of construction mode soon

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

none

potty training blues..

2010-05-15T18:23:00.000-05:00

GUS is potting training FINALLY.. yay the past few days he has been "making bubbles" and today he made "stinkies" in there.. IM so excited.. for him to be out of diapers.. we are wearing pull ups at night..

Five question friday

2010-05-14T05:02:00.000-05:00

Questions for Friday, 5/14/10

The rules...copy and paste the following questions to your blog post, answer them, then c'mon back to link up! The blog hop code is there for you to grab if you'd like it! I would really (honestly) appreciate it if you'd link back to Mama M..!!

1. Take your pick...date night, girls night out, or night out alone?

open work night at my local yarn store..

2. Can you touch your nose with your tongue?

YES

3. What is your favorite flower and why?

tulips.. i just love the way they look and smell and my daddy used to always pick them out of my grandma's yard and bring them to me on my birthday or valentines day..

4. If you could go back in time, what advice would you give yourself?

ask my dad more questions , and LISTEN to his answers..

5. If you won the lottery, what is the very first thing you would do?

pay the taxes on it so i dont got to jail, then tithe my 10 percent to a church then pay off bills oh ya and BLOW SOME..

Aloha Friday

2010-05-14T04:57:00.000-05:00

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Welcome to this week’s edition of Aloha Friday. In Hawaii, Aloha Friday is the day that they take it easy and look forward to the weekend. So I thought that on Fridays I would take it easy on posting, too.

Therefore, I’ll ask a simple question for you to answer. Nothing that requires a lengthy response. If you’d like to participate, just post your own question on your blog and leave your link below. Don’t forget to visit the other participants! It’s a great way to make new bloggy friends!

So my question this week is .. has anyone else struggled with postpartum depression? I have NO idea why I'm in a "funk" My marriage is wonderful for the now, i have three beautiful healthy kids, I am doing my dream job by being a stay at home mom, our bills are paid , YET i cant sleep at night , im not hungry , I anger easily, I am SO TIRED all the time and MOODY dont begin to describe it.. when i called my drs office to ask about something for it he said i would have to come in cause most ppl dont get it this late after the baby is born .>SHE IS BARLEY 3 MONTHS old..but cant afford to go cause i have no insurance. So any advice as to natural things i can do .. I'm still nursing to.. and thanks in advance..

Show us where you live friday

2010-05-14T04:48:00.000-05:00

So head over to Kelly's Korner to tell us what your favorite book was growing up .

She mentions one of her favs is Laura Ingalls Wilder..I grew up in Mtn.Grove ,Mo .only 18 miles from where the books were wrote and as a field trip we regularly toured the house in Mansfield,MO, also my dad met her when he was a little boy in Mtn.Grove at the grocery store. he said he could recall her sitting out on the bench with a yellow tablet writing.. When i was about 12 we went to South Dakota to visit family and visited other places she had lived in Kansas , Iowa,South Dakota,Minnesota and Wisconsin. very educational and interesting.

My favorite books as a child were The Bobsey twins, The Boxcar Children and ANYTHING by V.C Andrews.. . happy friday..

Friday Fill Ins

2010-05-14T02:11:00.000-05:00

Thursday, May 13, 2010

#176

And...here we go!

1. I just had __my butt fall asleep siting here to long___________.
2. ____really asleep it _____ is.
3. The third sentence on the 7th page of the book I'm reading: __I cant red..________.
4. ____soft yarn _________ tickles my fancy.
5. I was walking ___on my feet cause thats how i "ROLL"___________.
6. _______my kids_ makes me laugh!
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _knitting class on saturday____, tomorrow my plans include __put away that moutain of laundry ive been avioiding___ and Sunday, I want to _watch the race and go to church____!