making your home sing monday

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So as most of you know my EX husband and I had been seperated for a while before our divorce was final. During that time I became close with an aquaintence of my ex's. This person is now my offical boyfriend and so much differnt than my ex it is like night and day. This MAN is amazing ... He helps me with anything I need help with .. Does things with out being asked to help me , tells me he loves and appriecates me , acuses me of spoiling him. He stands up and defends me he has my back all the time. and i have fallen head over heals in love with this man. I am over the moon happy. It is wonderful to have a partner who treats you as a equal not as a less person and to have some support not to be belittled. So i make sure and tell him everyday how much i appriecate him and all he does for me. Sometimes we have to make sure we are happy so we can make our homes happy . my heart and home are singing. hope yall have a great week..

happy homemaker monday

The weather in my neck of the woods:
warm and sunny ,

Things that make me happy:

spending time with my wonderfully amazing boyfriend and our five kids



Book I'm reading:
The Missing by Beverly Lewis


 

What's on my TV today:
Sister Wives
On the menu for dinner:

Cheeseburger cassarole


On my To Do List:
Some major house cleaning and organizing


New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
nothing yet



In the craft basket:
Socks for my man and a knitted shirt for my baby ellie




Looking forward to this week:

spending time with my family

Tips and Tricks:
when trying to get my six, five, four and three year olds to pick up their room i make it a race who can pick the the most the fastest.. that really works.. and they clean and dont know it..HEHE


My favorite blog post this week:

THis one at In courage



Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):

THis one here called happily home






No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

our five WONDERFUL kids.from l to r.. gusy , logan , ellie,miah and dylan

Lesson learned the past few days:


sometimes the thing you fear the most can be the biggest blessing in the long run.




On my mind:
my ex husbands girlfriend spanked my little boy and that PISSES me off.. i dont feel it is her place to discipline my children it is their fathers and now i really want to beat the crap out of her.. how do other blended families handle this ?? i need advice..



Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

Thall shall not kill..lol.. see above..

making your home sing monday

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Well my divorce was final last wednesday and the kids went for their first offical weekend visit to their sperm donors. I  missed them so much but I guess they enjoyed him actually paying them some attention and taking them to do things so he can impress his new girlfriend. SO i have done alot of internal and mental cleaning this week since my new town house is organized and everything has a place and doesnt take a whole lot to keep clean. I have time for other things like my crochet and knitting.SO my home and heart is singing.Hope you all have a good week.

friday fill ins

Thursday, March 24, 2011


Friday Fill-Ins
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And...here we go!



1. Why does it _always rain on my kid free weekend____.



2. _a good nighs sleep ____ is equal _to a good roll in the hay____.



3. My favorite breakfast includes _biscuts and gravy____.



4. _Looking for a mircle____ was the last book I read _in a while____.



5. I am SO glad _i have my wonderful man in my life____.



6. _sex____ would make me feel better right now.



7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to goin hunting with my boyfriend_____, tomorrow my plans include __sleeping in and having alot of sex___ and Sunday, I want to move away before my kids come home..lol____!

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Friday Photo Flashbacks

this pic isnt that old but it is my favorite of my three kids and my two new step sons..i love these kids

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my new life..

So now that I am embarking on my new life as a unmarried mom to my three wonderful kids and my super amazing boyfriends(hopefully my husband someday)'s two boys I relieze how life can be and what I was missing. THEY (who ever they are)say  that when you meet THE ONE.. you will know.. i was always like YA right.. but THEY are right.. MY boyfriend is SO amazing. He helps me with SO much. I will never be able to show him much I appricate all he does and how much I love him. He treats me with so much love and respect. He treats my kids like they are his own. It is hard to find a man who will take care of their own kids much less one who will take on someone elses three small children as well.. HE makes me SO happy. We both like to do so many of the same things.We have similar dreams and goals. He makes me wanna be a better person . I am so dam lucky to have found him. HE is honestly the best thing that ever happened to me since i had my babies. I never knew it was possible to feel this way for anyone much less know they feel the same way back. I can feel his love for me when i look in his eyes , hold his hand it is like the warm sun on your arm on a cool day. When he kisses me it is like in the movies where time stops and fireworks are goin off all over. I feel so safe when I am in his arms. HE does NOT cuss , scream yell or berate me like my x did. He is a gentleman. It is so great to finaly be with a MAN, not a little boy. He is happy being a family man and can handle the responsibilites that come with that , and he does them with a smile. HE is SO amazing .I just cant really explain how he makes me feel. My kids love him. It is all the little things he does that takes my breath away. Like one night the baby was crying i was trying to fix her bottle and my older two were ready for bed n wanted a story read i told them they would have to wait a few minutes and before i knew it he was upstairs reading my kids a story and tucking them in while i took care of the baby. i didnt ask him to do it he just did it and when he was done he didnt complain about doing it or cuss me for making them wait. He helps me put away groceries, one night i was late getting home and he cooked supper for us, he helps around the house and makes everyday a good day.   He gets down with the kids and plays with them ,reads to them all the things ive always dreamed the daddy to my kids would do but never happened with my ex. WHen ever i need anything he is there for me.. He supports me in my dreams and dont tell me they are stupid. I can truly be myself with him.so now that i have went on and on about him here is a pic of MR. WONDERFUL and myself.. I love this man SO much..

what i ment to say wednesday//

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So back in novemember my soon to be exhusband comes home and tells me that he wants me and my kids to get out of his house and that GOD told him to return to his first wife due to the fact that when SHE divorced him it was a reason other than adultry.so each time him and i are together we are sinning and the only way for him to go to heaven is to leave our family and go back to her.. I said ..lets pray about it and seek the council of our pastors.. What i ment to say is .. WHAT THE HELL are you fucking crazy .. you dam ass hole.. im knocked up with our fourth baby and all you want to do is chase a piece of worn out pussy you fucked eight yrs ago..that thru you to the curb like a piece of trash.. cause you dont have the balls to handle being a family man.. your mid life crisis is happening at 29 . so you can go get fucked..

so here is a pic of me..

and this is what he gave up his kids and family for.. she is SO dam UGLY!!

opps i ment to say HORSE FACED..

but now that i have that out of my system I can say I NOW realize it was a pure blessing that he went to her They deserve each other I hope they both rot in hell cause i have a WONDERFUL man in my life who treats me with love and respect and helps me when i need it and is ALWAYS there for me when i need someone. and i cant wait for my divorce to be final so him and i can move on with our lives..