Monday, March 9, 2009

a time and place

well as most of you know #1 my husbands uncle passed away yesterday evening from a aneurysm and #2 i DO not get along with my husbands sister beth. Being that #1 and #2 affect each other lest just say the past few days have been more than uncomfortable considering the circumstances,

Most people view death as a reminder that we are not promised anything and we should make the most of our time on earth and treat others as we would want to be treated so when we pass GOOD things are remember and said about us, And that you could put aside your childish ass high school behavior , grow up and be civil but apparently some PEOPLE cant do that,
They insist on giving dirty looks, making smart ass comments and being a GRADE A #1 BITCH!!!

Now trying to be the bigger person is REALLY hard when you would really like to knock them on thier ass but knowing that this is NOT the time nor place, you have to suck it up and put on your big girl panties.. now after all has settled down there maybe be a good ole country ass whoopin..

You know some one can take so much b.s from someone before they snap,
a few "hypotheticals" to consider..
#1 turning someone in to dhs to try to sabotage a marriage by placing blame on the wife thru lies to persade the husband to leave her or kick her out.
#2 email someones friends and telling everyone in the family that doesnt really know that someone how terrible of a mother they are then leaving YOUR child with that person while you go outside and get drunk..
#3 pretending to be a "christian" and saying the reason you dislike someone because they "lie" all the time and then living a lie by trying to keep it a secrete you drink? who cares you are 21 if you want a beer drink the dam thing..dont hide it..
#4 LIKE you have never lied??
#5 everytime you are around you are the ass of all jokes, continues snide comments being made about you and the evil looks and wispering..
Yup she is pretty lucky i aint kicked the shit out of her yet..
now having said all of that i dont hate this person , i feel sorry for her that she is SO miseable that she has to treat others this away to feel good about herself.. and that she is SO jelous of my husband and me. it is really sad .. that the people who treat you the worse are family.
so anythoughts or suggestions.. let me know.. just needed to vent ..

1 comment:

  1. Wow I am so sorry about your husband's uncle. What a shock. He was so young and you just don't expect something like that at his age. I feel so bad for his wife and kids (and you all too).

    I'm sorry you're having a hard time with your sil. That is just so upsetting especially at a time like this! I think it's awesome that your kids are so close in age (mine are 4 years apart but not by choice) but I'll bet they keep you busy!