Wednesday, April 22, 2009

total outrage,

I am so pissed off at my husbands family, Some of them are just so aggravating to me. We told them we are expecting another baby and it was like we told them we had murdered someone, they are all in complete outrage, You would think they would welcome a new baby and see that children are a blessing from God, Daniel and I were NOT trying to have another baby , i was on the pill and never missed one, i guess god decide it was the right time, The bible says God wont give you more than you can handle, While I agree that with work for Daniel really slow right now this isn't the BEST timing and i understand that as a concern but to openly and publicly be outraged as if we have committed a felony is really hurtful, They all think I need to get "Fixed" after this one , like i am a dog or something. Last time I checked it wasn't up to them or even Daniel and I how many children I have, I believe that is up to GOD.Being a christian I believe God knows what is best and The he knows what is going to happen and how things are going to be in the end Long before we do. I dont know why they think i need to get"fixed". Some of them have openly told others that they think I am a bad mom, well I take GOOD care of my kids and my husband agree's. I feed my kids 3 solid meals a day , give them a bath every day, i play with them , read to them , keep them dressed in decent clothes and yes i spoil them rotten. So if that is what a bad mom is then im guilty, MY husband and I dont drink or get drunk in front of them or throw huge parties every weekend,My husband works very hard so I can stay home and Raise our kids not someone else.We take them to church most Sundays.And we are very happy with our life most the time, I not saying im a perfect mom EVERYONE has room for improvement somewhere, and just because my kids receive state medical insurance, doesn't mean we are a Welfare family, If they didn't have that insurance I couldn't take them to the doctor and they couldn't get the proper treatment and care they need for their recurring medical conditions. Also I do not believe that having a third baby is going to be that much more expensive since we are going to use cloth diapers and i will nurse the baby, I have all the baby things I need and clothes for either a boy or a girl.We are planting a huge garden and I have started to make our own laundry soap and cleaning products, I already use coupons and have cut our needless spending almost in half. Yes I realize that I will have 3 children 3 or under SO WHAT!!! I love my kids and cant wait to meet the new baby!! So I say to all the naysayers GET OVER YOUR SELF!! we are having another baby DEAL WITH IT!!! I don't care what you think about me I'm not going anywhere Daniel and I are HAPPY and in LOVE and while we weren't trying to have another baby we are excited to meet the new addition the the strain family.I only wish everyone else could see the blessing God has given us instead of being so negative all the time.

1 comment:

  1. Mistie,k

    You don't have to justify to anyone that you are a good mother.
    Also, do not listen to their opinions on you having another baby. Also, congratulations!