happy homemaker monday

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The weather in my neck of the woods:

up to mid 70's today but getting cooler at the end of the week


Things that make me happy:
Watching my kids play together laughing and making memories.


Book I'm reading:
My pregnacy week by week and Babycenters guide to pregancy

What's on my TV today:

Nothing i havent even turned it on yet.

On the menu for dinner:

Sloppy Joes

On my To Do List:

oh my this could be a whole nother blog post..




New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
Bbq spare ribs using mccormics bbq pull pork slow cooker mix as my meriade..they were great...


In the craft basket:

pair of sock for my man,baby blankets for my sister and cousin and a friend of my mans

Looking forward to this week:

my little girls pageant on saturday


Tips and Tricks:

if you have little girls who where dress shoes and they scuff them up put a pair of socks over the toes and remove them when you get where you are goin keeps the shoes clean.


My favorite blog post this week:

none


Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):

none i havet had the time to read many blogs lately..


No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

all the kids dress for church looking at daddy peekin around the corner..


Lesson learned the past few days:

you play you pay.. We are expecting our first baby together but will make baby number six in the family.


On my mind:

How my kids will be 7,6,5,4,&2 when the baby is born..

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:



Psalm 127:3-5 NIV
3 Children are a heritage from the LORD,


offspring a reward from him.

4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior

are children born in one’s youth.

5 Blessed is the man

whose quiver is full of them

Making Your Home sing Monday

Welcome to the Making Your Home Sing Monday meme! Every day you are doing something to make your house into a home for yourself and your family (if you have one). My point with each Monday post is, what are you doing or going to do today to make your home sing?


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SO it has been a while since i posted.let me catch you up.. My boyfriend of almost 10 months moved in with me and we have been raising my three kids ages 5,3,and1 and his two kids ages 7 &5 together we learned last monday that we are expecting our first baby together. My house is in total caios i dont know if i'll ever be able to keep up with all the messes being made and i feel completely overwhelemed.i need a professional organizer to donate thier services in a BAD WAY!!! my house is not singing and i think if anyone see the mess the chior directer would BAN US!!! My boyfriend is amazingly wonderful i never knew you could love someone so much and they love you back It is such a welcome change to have a parter who supports you and you are on the same parenting page with rather than what i was married to before..

A new leaf

Well my boyfriend and I have been together for nine months now and things are goin really well.. all the kids are getting along better and we are on the same page as far as disipline and finances..I also want to announce that coming this june we will be havin our first baby together.. He had two boys ages seven and five and I have a girl who is five and ( six moths older than his five yr old)a boy three and a girl 20 months so when baby A is born they will be 7,6 5 4 2 WOW i m crazy but i love it..

friday fill ins

Friday Fill-Ins!








And...here we go!



1. How can I _live with out my man____.



2. dont smoke weed it rots ur brain____.



3. My hair _is blond____.



4. _why would i go to my class  reunion i didnt like those ppl 10 yrs ago why do i care what they are doing now???_.




5. My favorite summer fruits _watermelon____.



6oh snap_____...what was that?



7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to snugglin with my man_, tomorrow my plans include _hanging with my man____ and Sunday, I want to enjoy all five of my kids_____

losing it..

do you ever feel as if you are waging a battle and you are losing as if everything you want is slipping threw your fingers like sand. and you wonder how you can pick up the pieces to get threw it or even IF you will survive it? when the shear thought of a event sends waves of panic threw your body . YUP i m there. I dont know how or what to say to make it better either. i feel like im in a tail spin and im losing it. and all i can do is watch it crash and burn. have you ever wanted to hold on to something so bad that you feel like you are spending all the time you have thinking about the whats to come and you cant even enjoy the moment. knowing your whole world just may very well come crashing down around you and you are goin to be alone..

my bf's stupid ex..

my boyfriends stupid assed ex pulled some shit today.. she went and picked up his boys from school with out his permission and basically kidnapped them but since the divorce papers dont specify who has what week the cops wont make her give them back so then she goes and files a restraining order against him and now he cant see, talk to or go near his boys who are his whole world. Her alimony is fixing to stop and she is just money hungry she thinks that if she can get full custody he will have to pay her child support.she is a lazy fat bitch who dont want to work.This has broken his heart .. He loves those boys SO much and is the kinda of daddy women fantize of having for thier kids. He has stepped up and took on the role of daddy to my three kids and he makes no difference between his or mine he treat them all the same. HE is a very loving ,kind, caring honest man who would never hurt anyone.I just wanna smack her.. IT kills me to see him in so much pain and there is nothing i can do to stop it . sorry for the lanuguage but i love those boys like they are my own and It kills me to know they are with her and they hate it there..they cry when we take them for thier visits and it is breaking my heart.. any advice ???

making your home sing monday

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So as most of you know my EX husband and I had been seperated for a while before our divorce was final. During that time I became close with an aquaintence of my ex's. This person is now my offical boyfriend and so much differnt than my ex it is like night and day. This MAN is amazing ... He helps me with anything I need help with .. Does things with out being asked to help me , tells me he loves and appriecates me , acuses me of spoiling him. He stands up and defends me he has my back all the time. and i have fallen head over heals in love with this man. I am over the moon happy. It is wonderful to have a partner who treats you as a equal not as a less person and to have some support not to be belittled. So i make sure and tell him everyday how much i appriecate him and all he does for me. Sometimes we have to make sure we are happy so we can make our homes happy . my heart and home are singing. hope yall have a great week..

happy homemaker monday

The weather in my neck of the woods:
warm and sunny ,

Things that make me happy:

spending time with my wonderfully amazing boyfriend and our five kids



Book I'm reading:
The Missing by Beverly Lewis


 

What's on my TV today:
Sister Wives
On the menu for dinner:

Cheeseburger cassarole


On my To Do List:
Some major house cleaning and organizing


New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
nothing yet



In the craft basket:
Socks for my man and a knitted shirt for my baby ellie




Looking forward to this week:

spending time with my family

Tips and Tricks:
when trying to get my six, five, four and three year olds to pick up their room i make it a race who can pick the the most the fastest.. that really works.. and they clean and dont know it..HEHE


My favorite blog post this week:

THis one at In courage



Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):

THis one here called happily home






No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

our five WONDERFUL kids.from l to r.. gusy , logan , ellie,miah and dylan

Lesson learned the past few days:


sometimes the thing you fear the most can be the biggest blessing in the long run.




On my mind:
my ex husbands girlfriend spanked my little boy and that PISSES me off.. i dont feel it is her place to discipline my children it is their fathers and now i really want to beat the crap out of her.. how do other blended families handle this ?? i need advice..



Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

Thall shall not kill..lol.. see above..

making your home sing monday

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Well my divorce was final last wednesday and the kids went for their first offical weekend visit to their sperm donors. I  missed them so much but I guess they enjoyed him actually paying them some attention and taking them to do things so he can impress his new girlfriend. SO i have done alot of internal and mental cleaning this week since my new town house is organized and everything has a place and doesnt take a whole lot to keep clean. I have time for other things like my crochet and knitting.SO my home and heart is singing.Hope you all have a good week.

friday fill ins

Thursday, March 24, 2011


Friday Fill-Ins
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And...here we go!



1. Why does it _always rain on my kid free weekend____.



2. _a good nighs sleep ____ is equal _to a good roll in the hay____.



3. My favorite breakfast includes _biscuts and gravy____.



4. _Looking for a mircle____ was the last book I read _in a while____.



5. I am SO glad _i have my wonderful man in my life____.



6. _sex____ would make me feel better right now.



7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to goin hunting with my boyfriend_____, tomorrow my plans include __sleeping in and having alot of sex___ and Sunday, I want to move away before my kids come home..lol____!

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Friday Photo Flashbacks

this pic isnt that old but it is my favorite of my three kids and my two new step sons..i love these kids

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my new life..

So now that I am embarking on my new life as a unmarried mom to my three wonderful kids and my super amazing boyfriends(hopefully my husband someday)'s two boys I relieze how life can be and what I was missing. THEY (who ever they are)say  that when you meet THE ONE.. you will know.. i was always like YA right.. but THEY are right.. MY boyfriend is SO amazing. He helps me with SO much. I will never be able to show him much I appricate all he does and how much I love him. He treats me with so much love and respect. He treats my kids like they are his own. It is hard to find a man who will take care of their own kids much less one who will take on someone elses three small children as well.. HE makes me SO happy. We both like to do so many of the same things.We have similar dreams and goals. He makes me wanna be a better person . I am so dam lucky to have found him. HE is honestly the best thing that ever happened to me since i had my babies. I never knew it was possible to feel this way for anyone much less know they feel the same way back. I can feel his love for me when i look in his eyes , hold his hand it is like the warm sun on your arm on a cool day. When he kisses me it is like in the movies where time stops and fireworks are goin off all over. I feel so safe when I am in his arms. HE does NOT cuss , scream yell or berate me like my x did. He is a gentleman. It is so great to finaly be with a MAN, not a little boy. He is happy being a family man and can handle the responsibilites that come with that , and he does them with a smile. HE is SO amazing .I just cant really explain how he makes me feel. My kids love him. It is all the little things he does that takes my breath away. Like one night the baby was crying i was trying to fix her bottle and my older two were ready for bed n wanted a story read i told them they would have to wait a few minutes and before i knew it he was upstairs reading my kids a story and tucking them in while i took care of the baby. i didnt ask him to do it he just did it and when he was done he didnt complain about doing it or cuss me for making them wait. He helps me put away groceries, one night i was late getting home and he cooked supper for us, he helps around the house and makes everyday a good day.   He gets down with the kids and plays with them ,reads to them all the things ive always dreamed the daddy to my kids would do but never happened with my ex. WHen ever i need anything he is there for me.. He supports me in my dreams and dont tell me they are stupid. I can truly be myself with him.so now that i have went on and on about him here is a pic of MR. WONDERFUL and myself.. I love this man SO much..

what i ment to say wednesday//

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So back in novemember my soon to be exhusband comes home and tells me that he wants me and my kids to get out of his house and that GOD told him to return to his first wife due to the fact that when SHE divorced him it was a reason other than adultry.so each time him and i are together we are sinning and the only way for him to go to heaven is to leave our family and go back to her.. I said ..lets pray about it and seek the council of our pastors.. What i ment to say is .. WHAT THE HELL are you fucking crazy .. you dam ass hole.. im knocked up with our fourth baby and all you want to do is chase a piece of worn out pussy you fucked eight yrs ago..that thru you to the curb like a piece of trash.. cause you dont have the balls to handle being a family man.. your mid life crisis is happening at 29 . so you can go get fucked..

so here is a pic of me..

and this is what he gave up his kids and family for.. she is SO dam UGLY!!

opps i ment to say HORSE FACED..

but now that i have that out of my system I can say I NOW realize it was a pure blessing that he went to her They deserve each other I hope they both rot in hell cause i have a WONDERFUL man in my life who treats me with love and respect and helps me when i need it and is ALWAYS there for me when i need someone. and i cant wait for my divorce to be final so him and i can move on with our lives..

Wordful and Wordless Wednesday

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As most of you know I am embarking on a NEW life, I am now divorced and raising my kids with the help of my AMAZING boyfriend . Ive gained a real partner and two sons and couldnt be happier.. Here is some pics of our brood.

and of course my and my man ( i love his amazing blue eyes)

black and white wednesday,

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I have a new man in my life and he has two sons so together we have Five kids age six and under
here are some recent pics i took of our brood.

and here is a pic of my special man and his two boys



and here is US.. he makes me SO happy .. and you cant see them here but he has the most amazing blue eyes..

works for me wednesday

Works for me Wednesday

So I am settling in to my new townhouse, My wonderful three year old son decided to draw mommy a picture in Perment marker on my white walls .. SO i searched high and low but finally got it off.so what takes perment marker off.. FINGERNAIL POLISH REMOVER..who knew.. so that is what works for me.. happy hump day..

Tackle It Tuesday

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This week Im tackling getting everything settled and organized in my new place. Im recently divorced and moved my children and my self in to a townhouse and finally have a few days to get things in order. SO that is what im tackling. 

post it note tuesday ..

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making your homesing monday

Making Your Home Sing: 










Welcome to the Making Your Home Sing Monday meme! Every day you are doing something to make your house into a home for yourself and your family (if you have one).

It can be an attitude or an action. Motivation, our attitude, baking, encouraging our husband or children (if we have either one), organization, cleaning, saving money....the opportunities are endless.


Well SO much has happened since i posted last.. MY soon to be EX husband kicked me and the kids out because GOD told him to remarry is first wife or he was going to hell.. I have adjusted to my new life ..met a wonderful MAN.. im done with boys.. my ex husband was a boy.. MY new home is a townhouse where everything works and there is no holes in the floors and things get fixed unlike when i was living in that hell hole rat trap my ex owns.. My kids are SO much happier and my new man treats me and my kids with love and respect. No more being verbally and emotionally abused.. Only being showed what it is really like to be loved back and to get and recieve..I also gained two step sons who are six and four, so we have five kids six and under.. they are six, four , four, three and one.. MY new home is organized and runs smoothly and so now it is singing.. There have been some major adjustments and we have made them. I am SO happy , and feel so centered and enjoying whereI am in my life .Things can only get better.. HOpe everything is well with Y'all.

happy homemaker monday

Happy Homemaker Monday - #11 - 2011

The weather in my neck of the woods:

Today: Mostly sunny, with a high near 83. South southwest wind between 10 and 15 mph.

Tonight: Partly cloudy, with a low around 59. South wind between 5 and 10 mph.





Things that make me happy:

my new life with my kids and wonderful boyfriend

Book I'm reading:
nothing right now goin to the liabrary later today.


What's on my TV today:
nothing



On the menu for dinner:
stuffed bell peppers



On my To Do List:
clean house and put away laundry

New Recipe I tried or want to try soon:
cabbage cassorole





In the craft basket:
a knitted shirt for my baby ellie

Looking forward to this week:
Getting my new place in order..

Tips and Tricks:

fingrernail polish remover will take perment marker off a white wall..who knew..



My favorite blog post this week:
Didn't get any reading done last week,
Im just getting back to bloggin after a long time off due to life drama

Blog Hopping (a new discovered blog you would like to share with the readers):
read above



No words needed (favorite photo or picture, yours or others you want to share):

Lesson learned the past few days:
sometimes the thing you fear the most can be the biggest blessing in the long run.

On my mind:
my family and that my divorce will be finalized SOON

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses:

none this week

friday fill ins

Thursday, February 24, 2011
Friday Fill-Ins 2011-8



And...here we go!

1. Ooooh, I cant wait for a kid free weekend with my man.

2. If I cant see him , I can't stand it!

3. How the heck did I end up with so many kids.

4. silver dollar city is one of my favorite places to visit.

5. I'm not a bitch, I'm not!

6. Sex, it has to be good.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to going to bed early, tomorrow my plans include relaxing and Sunday, I want to sleep in..!
Posted by Janet at 7:20 PM

another update

well my ex and i made a agreement about custody of the kids and now just wating on lawyers to get off their butts and do their jobs.. also i met someone new..well he aint really new he has been an aquantiance for a while but only a friend..I finally got my own apartment and hopefully get to move in this week.also my job is ok.Ellie and Gussy are sick.. Ellie has ear infections again and gussy has pnumonia and miss miah is as sassy as ever. Im really happy for the first time in a long time. it feels good to be "ME" again.. hope everyone is doin well.

one BIG update

So it is time for a BIG Update.. so a lot has happened since i posted last.. My soon to be EX husband threw a pregnant me and our three small children out on our asses to remarry is first wife who left him. I lost that baby and on saturday my baby will be one.. i cant believe she is that old. I am living with HIS mother as i have no where else to stay. I did finally get a job today and start on Monday. So I hope to be able to blog more often now. here is a new pic of the kiddies..

hope to hear from all my bloggy friends soon