Friday, May 15, 2009


so i was just wondering something for those of you out here in blog land do you believe you can "speak" things in to existence? I do i was raised to be careful what you say as you can make things happen with words.. so saying that Ive had the thought come to through my mind that some how maybe all the negative things said about my most recent pregnancy by my husband's family could have contributed to the loss.. I am not BLAMING anyone, I know it was all apart of gods plan , but since so many of them spoke those evil and hurtful things could it have had an effect? What do you think? I know I am blessed with two wonderful and mostly healthy children already, one of each, do you think it is selfish of me to want more? We believe each child is a blessing and by using birth control you are denying a blessing from god which we view as a sin.. also know as a quiver full family . this is just something god has recently opened our eyes to. Let me know what you think..


  1. It's a shame your husband's family isn't as accepting but you know what's right for you and your family.

    I don't think you're selfish one bit for wanting another miracle! I wish you the best :)

  2. I believe god is giving you a wake up call to some of the things you have said. not to be rude, but you did say: maybe god didn't want some people to have kids (if they have to use invitro). Maybe he's just showing you that it can happen to anyone, you included, and not too judge undeservingly. I'd be happy if I could have a baby boy and a baby girl and wouldn't push it!

  3. I think we should always be mindful of our own words, I believe they have the most power to shape our lives. We have no power over the words of others and I don't believe they have power over us unless we hand them our power.